No, I didn't but I saw some little girl get smacked by her mother one time. I was in the mall with my friends. I was finally made them buy T… moreTG TWD GOTY Edition. We got outside. There was that little, cute girl. She was telling her mother that she was thirsty. But she didn't give a single fuck about it. They were waiting the bus. So are we. ''Mom, I'm thirsty. Can you buy me some water?'' Then SLAP!! ''STOP SAYING THE SAME THING OVER AND OVER AGAIN! Huh, you thirsty.'' It was none of my buisness and I shouldn't have get between them. But seeing some sweet, innocient girl get slapped... even that was came by her mother... she wasn't asked much. I yelled at her; ''HEY! THAT GIRL ASKING YOU THAT SHE WAS THIRSTY THAT WHOLE TIME! THAT GIRL IS NOT A TOY THAT YOU CAN SMACK HER! BEING A MOTHER DOESN'T GIVE YOU ANY RIGHT TO DO THAT TO HER! TRY BEING A MOTHER!'' I argued with her I don't know how long. Then I bought her a water. She smiled at me. God...… [view original content]
you brought this all on yourself dont look back, ur the one who invited peoples curiosity by saying im not gonna tell you if i was hit or not. that makes ppl think u were hit because ur afraid to share, if u really didnt want people to bug u about then u should have kept ur mouth shut, its just common sense.
Look dude, your saying i was hit when i never said i was. I didn't think it was any of your business so i didn't want to tell you.
Your … moreover reaction about something you don't know the answer to. I WASN'T HIT. Ok? happy? Now stop, because it wasn't your business and still isn't.
Threads like this shouldn't even be made, honestly.
It bring up unnecessary arguments and also reminds others of bad times.
Then we have people pressuring others to tell them what happened, it's just absurd and unneeded.
I also agree.
It brings bad memories up.
And it can also allow one's to bad mouth others, thus giving the rest of us a negative view of people we've never even met.
And that is wrong.
If someone has a problem with another, the can have the decency to tell them to their face.
Only cowards, and one's who are mean-spirited, talk about others behind their backs.
I personally like to meet people, and draw my own conclusions, before I start hearing about the wrongs they done.
Threads like this shouldn't even be made, honestly.
It bring up unnecessary arguments and also reminds others of bad times.
Then we have people pressuring others to tell them what happened, it's just absurd and unneeded.
When I was hiking during my school camp... the trees had thick branches and I pushed them away too much and they slipped of my hands and Double B-slapped me in the face... I slid down a bit... just proves that nature likes to hurt people sometimes xd
I was born early 80s and things were a little different back then, I had a very normal up bringing and have had a few cogwinders in my time, nothing wrong with discipline..
While I was never smacked to the point of it knocking me off my feet (no need for that imo) I had a few , and for when we had been really bad it was either the cane of the dreaded belt lol.... now the belt... you feared, you never wanted that lol... I think I had the belt 2x but defo deserved it and never did it again I can tell ya...
Its different now tho, you carnt discipline your kids unless you want 5 years, and dont tell me its stops abuse because abusive people will do it anyway, biiiiig difference in abuse and discipline
Yeah, I was. Once. And I totally deserved it.
I think it was when I was about 8 or so and I stayed out all day and way past my curfew without telling my parents. They ended up searching the streets for me and when they found me and brought me home, my Dad smacked me down good. But even then I knew it was because he was worried sick about me and I think he was well within his right to do what he did.
I needed that, I think. I was a big brat as a kid and the whole thing taught me that it's important to consider more than what you want or feel.
In the end, I think there are times when kids need to be shown that some things they just can't do. As long as it doesn't cross over into abuse, I think a good smack now and then is fine.
Yep.. tacking your example there, if your parents hadnt have disciplined you there chances are you would have done the same again or worse putting you in danger, that bit of discipline could have/probably saved your life..
As kids we think we know it all and when you get a certain age kids like to test the line, let them cross that line and you have issues, its crazy that you carnt smack you kids hand in town withough a riot squad jumping over your back... kids these dzys are unruly and have zero respect...... well most of em, labeling them is wrong but on the whole I think kids need more discipline.
Yeah, I was. Once. And I totally deserved it.
I think it was when I was about 8 or so and I stayed out all day and way past my curfew witho… moreut telling my parents. They ended up searching the streets for me and when they found me and brought me home, my Dad smacked me down good. But even then I knew it was because he was worried sick about me and I think he was well within his right to do what he did.
I needed that, I think. I was a big brat as a kid and the whole thing taught me that it's important to consider more than what you want or feel.
In the end, I think there are times when kids need to be shown that some things they just can't do. As long as it doesn't cross over into abuse, I think a good smack now and then is fine.
Physical violence in a family causes the family to break apart. Any type of physical violence causes relationships to get destroyed.
Sorry if you didn't see I edited it. If you have what I originally posted I would appreciate it if you sent it to me.
If not, I'll summarize:
What I said was that sometimes it's basically the parent's fault for not disciplining their child with morals from birth. I stated that their are few times where being hit is justified but, that isn't necessarily always the solution.
If I'm wrong about what I originally posted, correct me please. I had edited what I originally said because I wasn't allowed to double post.
Yep.. tacking your example there, if your parents hadnt have disciplined you there chances are you would have done the same again or worse p… moreutting you in danger, that bit of discipline could have/probably saved your life..
As kids we think we know it all and when you get a certain age kids like to test the line, let them cross that line and you have issues, its crazy that you carnt smack you kids hand in town withough a riot squad jumping over your back... kids these dzys are unruly and have zero respect...... well most of em, labeling them is wrong but on the whole I think kids need more discipline.
When I was hiking during my school camp... the trees had thick branches and I pushed them away too much and they slipped of my hands and Double B-slapped me in the face... I slid down a bit... just proves that nature likes to hurt people sometimes xd
Ohhhi agree, some parents these days I wouldn't leave my dog with (not a joke)..
Also agree on the physical discipline, its only needed in a few situations, say if my son doesnt tidy his room im not going to physically discipline him, he just wont eat for 3 days............... only joking :P but you get my point,
put it this way... I remember every time I was physically punished, meaning I had done somthing pretty heavy/dangerous to deserve it.. the little clips around the ear not so much but but the big times I remember them all to this day, and without doubt its made me a better person because of it...
The main one I remember, I got caught up in the (im in a group thing) I was about 6 I think, at school there was about 8 us putting the boot in on this ONE other kid.... (im still embarrassed by this to this day lol) and I was one of the fools getting the boot in........ unknown to me my mother had just walked into the playground ..... not good lol..... she frog marched me all the way home via my ear and when my dad got home i was punished...... never did it again and it from that day I always saw it as wrong, even now in my 30s it makes my skin crawl thinking of that cowardly act I took part in....
Which brings another point up, when ever I was punished heavily I was always sat down latter and explained to why I was punished in such a way, wich I also think is very important.
Edit:
Physical violence in a family causes the family to break apart. Any type of physical violence causes relationships to get destroyed… more.
Sorry if you didn't see I edited it. If you have what I originally posted I would appreciate it if you sent it to me.
If not, I'll summarize:
What I said was that sometimes it's basically the parent's fault for not disciplining their child with morals from birth. I stated that their are few times where being hit is justified but, that isn't necessarily always the solution.
If I'm wrong about what I originally posted, correct me please. I had edited what I originally said because I wasn't allowed to double post.
Oh my god, that's awful. Don't blame yourself though. I can't see anything that makes it look like it's your fault. It seems more like the fault of the driver to me. But it definitely wasn't you.
I've never been hit.
But my mom once beat the hell out of my brother when he accidentally swore. He zones out in class and his grades dro… morepped badly, the beating greatly affected him. He doesn't socialize that much and pretty much became closeted. My mom mentioned to him a couple of times of how I am much a better child than him.
Everything seemed to break down at that point, he ran away from home and I followed him. He rode his bike and pedalled fast, but events after that was unbelievable. He was hit by car. His body rolled to the side of the rode, and I gasped in shock and took my phone,
I called the ambulance and my mom, I held his hand, kissing it lightly and hoping for him to be okay. When we did arrive at the hospital, he was pronounced dead. on. arrival.
It was all my fault. I wish he was still alive. I was the reason why he died and I can't forgive myself. Sorry if It got too "emotional" but I wanted to share this to you guys.
Above all else I think sitting down and explaining things to kids is the way to go. My parents always did that with me, and I've always done that with the youngins in the family and they seem to take well to it as well.
Ohhhi agree, some parents these days I wouldn't leave my dog with (not a joke)..
Also agree on the physical discipline, its only needed … morein a few situations, say if my son doesnt tidy his room im not going to physically discipline him, he just wont eat for 3 days............... only joking :P but you get my point,
put it this way... I remember every time I was physically punished, meaning I had done somthing pretty heavy/dangerous to deserve it.. the little clips around the ear not so much but but the big times I remember them all to this day, and without doubt its made me a better person because of it...
The main one I remember, I got caught up in the (im in a group thing) I was about 6 I think, at school there was about 8 us putting the boot in on this ONE other kid.... (im still embarrassed by this to this day lol) and I was one of the fools getting the boot in........ unknown to me my mother had just walked into the playground … [view original content]
Yep, kids love to feel grown up, treat em like this and speak with them you usualy get a way better reaction Imo, still nothing wrong with a clip around ear tho if its deserved, but thats where it gets sketchy aint it... when is it deserved, some parents will smack a kid spilling a drink which is out of order imo, this is the point tho its such a grey area...
But yea try treating a kid with a bit of respect and show you respect them usualy gets the desired result, smacking is only needed in dire circumstances, otherwise you just bread resentment in the child..
Above all else I think sitting down and explaining things to kids is the way to go. My parents always did that with me, and I've always done that with the youngins in the family and they seem to take well to it as well.
Yep, kids love to feel grown up, treat em like this and speak with them you usualy get a way better reaction Imo, still nothing wrong with a… more clip around ear tho if its deserved, but thats where it gets sketchy aint it... when is it deserved, some parents will smack a kid spilling a drink which is out of order imo, this is the point tho its such a grey area...
But yea try treating a kid with a bit of respect and show you respect them usualy gets the desired result, smacking is only needed in dire circumstances, otherwise you just bread resentment in the child..
No probs on the edit m8, I thought it a bit strange at first untill you explained lol, unfortunately ive lost your original post but I see what your getting at, no probs
Either way I think discipline is in order here sunshine........... come on over my knee.... hahahaha
Edit:
Physical violence in a family causes the family to break apart. Any type of physical violence causes relationships to get destroyed… more.
Sorry if you didn't see I edited it. If you have what I originally posted I would appreciate it if you sent it to me.
If not, I'll summarize:
What I said was that sometimes it's basically the parent's fault for not disciplining their child with morals from birth. I stated that their are few times where being hit is justified but, that isn't necessarily always the solution.
If I'm wrong about what I originally posted, correct me please. I had edited what I originally said because I wasn't allowed to double post.
I think if the U.S. alone stopped spending billions on foreign wars, or farces like the Drug War, for like a week that we could set up sustainable agriculture across the world with that money.
Well now we have sorted that social issue what next... im thinkin world hunger... what ya say lol..
EDIT..........EDIT
I love how you got down voted on your above post wahahahahaha, there are some messed up people frequenting these forums lol
Come on eddie give the conversation a chance here, your fixing the issue way to quick lol..
I remember watchin a news thing some years ago that gave a rough idea the amount the US we spending fuel alone to keep there tanks rolling in Iraq. Thats fuel alone, no wages or ammunition JUST FUEL..... it was millions a day... unbelievable when you think of it, and here is me scratching about for a PS4... just aint fair lol
I think if the U.S. alone stopped spending billions on foreign wars, or farces like the Drug War, for like a week that we could set up sustainable agriculture across the world with that money.
Come on eddie give the conversation a chance here, your fixing the issue way to quick lol..
I remember watchin a news thing some years ag… moreo that gave a rough idea the amount the US we spending fuel alone to keep there tanks rolling in Iraq. Thats fuel alone, no wages or ammunition JUST FUEL..... it was millions a day... unbelievable when you think of it, and here is me scratching about for a PS4... just aint fair lol
Never has been and if the trajectory continues, it never will be. I'll refer you to one of my favorite quotes that fits the topic nicely.
"The surest way to remain poor is to be an honest man."
Napoleon Bonaparte
When I was hiking during my school camp... the trees had thick branches and I pushed them away too much and they slipped of my hands and Double B-slapped me in the face... I slid down a bit... just proves that nature likes to hurt people sometimes xd
Yep.. tacking your example there, if your parents hadnt have disciplined you there chances are you would have done the same again or worse p… moreutting you in danger, that bit of discipline could have/probably saved your life..
As kids we think we know it all and when you get a certain age kids like to test the line, let them cross that line and you have issues, its crazy that you carnt smack you kids hand in town withough a riot squad jumping over your back... kids these dzys are unruly and have zero respect...... well most of em, labeling them is wrong but on the whole I think kids need more discipline.
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White people can't relate.
he is just like Carver, he doesn't tolerate incompetence
Awww.. thats adorable and sweet of you. There still is such thing as humanity
How old were you when he did this, if you don't mind me asking?
and why do you think he figures, not shaving, as incompetence?
Threads like this shouldn't even be made, honestly.
It bring up unnecessary arguments and also reminds others of bad times.
Then we have people pressuring others to tell them what happened, it's just absurd and unneeded.
Yeah, but only when I deserved it for being an annoying child.
stress her? yeah ok because he's totally interrogating this poor fragile little girl. get a grip man.
you brought this all on yourself dont look back, ur the one who invited peoples curiosity by saying im not gonna tell you if i was hit or not. that makes ppl think u were hit because ur afraid to share, if u really didnt want people to bug u about then u should have kept ur mouth shut, its just common sense.
Nope,but I was hurt more once.
For some stupid reason - I decided to jump off a 2 story building into a pool,I ended up on the floor.
This ^
I totally agree with you.
One time when my raid failed,and they captured me and tortured me.
I also agree.
It brings bad memories up.
And it can also allow one's to bad mouth others, thus giving the rest of us a negative view of people we've never even met.
And that is wrong.
If someone has a problem with another, the can have the decency to tell them to their face.
Only cowards, and one's who are mean-spirited, talk about others behind their backs.
I personally like to meet people, and draw my own conclusions, before I start hearing about the wrongs they done.
Haha
When I was hiking during my school camp... the trees had thick branches and I pushed them away too much and they slipped of my hands and Double B-slapped me in the face... I slid down a bit... just proves that nature likes to hurt people sometimes xd
Yeah,my girlfriend smacks me in the face with the thickness every night.
I was born early 80s and things were a little different back then, I had a very normal up bringing and have had a few cogwinders in my time, nothing wrong with discipline..
While I was never smacked to the point of it knocking me off my feet (no need for that imo) I had a few , and for when we had been really bad it was either the cane of the dreaded belt lol.... now the belt... you feared, you never wanted that lol... I think I had the belt 2x but defo deserved it and never did it again I can tell ya...
Its different now tho, you carnt discipline your kids unless you want 5 years, and dont tell me its stops abuse because abusive people will do it anyway, biiiiig difference in abuse and discipline
Yeah, I was. Once. And I totally deserved it.
I think it was when I was about 8 or so and I stayed out all day and way past my curfew without telling my parents. They ended up searching the streets for me and when they found me and brought me home, my Dad smacked me down good. But even then I knew it was because he was worried sick about me and I think he was well within his right to do what he did.
I needed that, I think. I was a big brat as a kid and the whole thing taught me that it's important to consider more than what you want or feel.
In the end, I think there are times when kids need to be shown that some things they just can't do. As long as it doesn't cross over into abuse, I think a good smack now and then is fine.
Yep.. tacking your example there, if your parents hadnt have disciplined you there chances are you would have done the same again or worse putting you in danger, that bit of discipline could have/probably saved your life..
As kids we think we know it all and when you get a certain age kids like to test the line, let them cross that line and you have issues, its crazy that you carnt smack you kids hand in town withough a riot squad jumping over your back... kids these dzys are unruly and have zero respect...... well most of em, labeling them is wrong but on the whole I think kids need more discipline.
Edit:
Physical violence in a family causes the family to break apart. Any type of physical violence causes relationships to get destroyed.
Sorry if you didn't see I edited it. If you have what I originally posted I would appreciate it if you sent it to me.
If not, I'll summarize:
What I said was that sometimes it's basically the parent's fault for not disciplining their child with morals from birth. I stated that their are few times where being hit is justified but, that isn't necessarily always the solution.
If I'm wrong about what I originally posted, correct me please. I had edited what I originally said because I wasn't allowed to double post.
That was a nice way to lighten up the thread.
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Ohhhi agree, some parents these days I wouldn't leave my dog with (not a joke)..
Also agree on the physical discipline, its only needed in a few situations, say if my son doesnt tidy his room im not going to physically discipline him, he just wont eat for 3 days............... only joking :P but you get my point,
put it this way... I remember every time I was physically punished, meaning I had done somthing pretty heavy/dangerous to deserve it.. the little clips around the ear not so much but but the big times I remember them all to this day, and without doubt its made me a better person because of it...
The main one I remember, I got caught up in the (im in a group thing) I was about 6 I think, at school there was about 8 us putting the boot in on this ONE other kid.... (im still embarrassed by this to this day lol) and I was one of the fools getting the boot in........ unknown to me my mother had just walked into the playground ..... not good lol..... she frog marched me all the way home via my ear and when my dad got home i was punished...... never did it again and it from that day I always saw it as wrong, even now in my 30s it makes my skin crawl thinking of that cowardly act I took part in....
Which brings another point up, when ever I was punished heavily I was always sat down latter and explained to why I was punished in such a way, wich I also think is very important.
Oh my god, that's awful. Don't blame yourself though. I can't see anything that makes it look like it's your fault. It seems more like the fault of the driver to me. But it definitely wasn't you.
Above all else I think sitting down and explaining things to kids is the way to go. My parents always did that with me, and I've always done that with the youngins in the family and they seem to take well to it as well.
Yep, kids love to feel grown up, treat em like this and speak with them you usualy get a way better reaction Imo, still nothing wrong with a clip around ear tho if its deserved, but thats where it gets sketchy aint it... when is it deserved, some parents will smack a kid spilling a drink which is out of order imo, this is the point tho its such a grey area...
But yea try treating a kid with a bit of respect and show you respect them usualy gets the desired result, smacking is only needed in dire circumstances, otherwise you just bread resentment in the child..
Agreed.
No probs on the edit m8, I thought it a bit strange at first untill you explained lol, unfortunately ive lost your original post but I see what your getting at, no probs
Either way I think discipline is in order here sunshine........... come on over my knee.... hahahaha
Well now we have sorted that social issue what next... im thinkin world hunger... what ya say lol..
EDIT..........EDIT
I love how you got down voted on your above post wahahahahaha, there are some messed up people frequenting these forums lol
I think if the U.S. alone stopped spending billions on foreign wars, or farces like the Drug War, for like a week that we could set up sustainable agriculture across the world with that money.
Come on eddie give the conversation a chance here, your fixing the issue way to quick lol..
I remember watchin a news thing some years ago that gave a rough idea the amount the US we spending fuel alone to keep there tanks rolling in Iraq. Thats fuel alone, no wages or ammunition JUST FUEL..... it was millions a day... unbelievable when you think of it, and here is me scratching about for a PS4... just aint fair lol
Never has been and if the trajectory continues, it never will be. I'll refer you to one of my favorite quotes that fits the topic nicely.
"The surest way to remain poor is to be an honest man."
Napoleon Bonaparte
That quote makes me sad.
A sad truth
My uncle did, when I wet myself.
I was around 5 and we were in a mall or something.
You should sue them plants.
That's messed up... Instead of helping you and consulting you, he just hit you, that's cruelty
Me and my brother used to get in a bunch of fights, i think he slapped me pretty hard before.
Violence to discipline kids?
That's fucking stupid Ben.