unrequited love
CrazyGeorge
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As a beautiful man, sometimes people fall in love with me. I find it harder and harder to find the right words to express these people. I've had some crazy experiences with some women, who just couldn't take no for a answer. How do you let people know you aren't interested in them, are you nice about it. Do you avoid them like the plague? When you have someone crushing on you hard, how do you deal with it, when you simply aren't interested.
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I know what it feels like, so I try to be nice. But there's not much I can do, I just try not to hurt his/her feelings (not much)
... Let's just say this is a problem I've never had to deal with...
I found in my experiences if you are too nice, you give people hope. That can lead to disaster, and slashed tires.
You will bro, your life isn't over yet. Stay positive.
Personal experience? I hope this doesn't happen to me, ever :P
I've had worse than that.
You just got to avoid them I guess OP, or outright say "I don't like you, stop it"
I just hshow them my ring. Or I used to just tell them I'm not interested.
Need scientific proof of this for science.
I wish I had this problem
I would be happy to have someone care that enough about me, would welcome it even.
F**k I wish this happened to me XD I would love just one person to love me.
I love you James xD
Never happened to me, as I'm one ugly fucker, who's also a damn coward, socially awkward and my demeanor ofttimes is abrasive and unpleasant.
Thankfully this has never happened to me. I try my hardest to look as plain and unnoticeable as possible even more than I already naturally am and people stay away from me usually so it works.
Everytime I've been asked out I just say no in a kinda dickheadish way and they would leave me alone after. I'm starting to regret rejecting a few of those girls now since I don't get asked out anymore.
Incest is a thing. :P
I tell them I only see them as a friend, or even better, like a brother. The sibling zone is infinitely worse than the friend zone, but at least they get the idea that I'll never see them in a romantic sense.
On another note, the dresses those girls are wearing in the picture are absolutely hideous.
That doesn't work. The last girl that said I was like a brother still slept with me anyway.
Or live in Southern United States.
Most sane/mentally stable people aren't into incest. Unless you live in Game Of Thrones lol.
Well, I can't speak for her..maybe she really was into you but was playing hard to get? For me it works, because when I brother zone someone, I sincerely mean it.:/
If I suspected they have a crush on me, I shows signs that I am not interested before they confess so they won't have to deal with rejection which has only happen once.
I don't want to generalize, I wouldn't say in most southern states. Though I do know that "cousin lovin" is a thing in certain areas deep, and I mean deep in the south.
It is...It is...Such a wonderful world we live in. :P
Idk
If I knew, I would tell you.
I'm married these days, so don't have to worry about it much anymore. (Can't say that works in reverse for married women, though.)
But if you're available, and she knows it, and she throws herself at you, and you still refuse, well, there's no good way to do it. Get tire insurance.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s7XeUeBiUOQ
Lol that picture.
I'd like to think that if this is your biggest trouble, your life is pretty fucking good.
I wouldn't know, this kind of shit never happened to me, I have female friends from class and I'd like it to stay that way, but none of them has ever/will ever show interest in me. I have other problems to think about
I've never had anyone interested in me before, so I couldn't say. Also I suffer from extreme social anxiety so that's probably why.
no its not. Don't be weird bro LOL.
I love Southern Women, they have cute cute accents. Who CARES if they slept with their cousin once when they were sixteen, SURE we all made mistakes when we were young.
I've been in a couple abusive relationships, Women are just as capable of being abusers as a man.
I thought it was extremely fitting, it made me LOL as well. Maybe that is why Arvo went Ebil. And i do mean EBIL
Well, those are some crazy fucking women.. Get a restraining order and or call the cops on anyone who harms you like that, lol.
No question in that, it would be stupid and discriminating for anyone to think otherwise.
Can't say I have experienced that. I mean, I have had a couple of girls who liked me, but, didn't get all crazy on me.
Women are weird lol (and I'm sure women would say the same thing about guys).
By the way, those girls in the picture are nice.
Holy shit! Man, sounds like you been put through the ringer. I didn't really know women could get so crazy. That is fucked up.
I wish people would acknowledge this more often. .-.
That only happened to me once in 2nd grade. Usually, I'm the one asking someone out and get rejected. Besides, I'm not that good looking, and I'm pretty awkward most of the time.