Do you think these guys in Oregon were wrong for doing what they did?

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  • Way to take the high road.

    Cope49 posted: »

    They shouldn't have turned them away .They have doubled/tripled their price of the cake. That would have been my move.

  • Spoken like a true lawyer. I'm sure the defense will argue this.

    Aaira posted: »

    a wedding isn't a person, so as far as i'm aware the baker wasn't discriminating against a person.

  • did they deny any other gay couple service on anything else?

    Wow. And for fucks sake, it was both, the people and the ceremony. If your entire business is making cakes for all types of ceremonies in

  • everyone i've seen defending the baker argued this (ignoring the religious nuts), i don't think there's any other defence

    BigBlindMax posted: »

    Spoken like a true lawyer. I'm sure the defense will argue this.

  • I don't know. They were probably only there for the cake. The owners did deny them because of their lifestyle, if you read up on one of the dozen articles about it, you would know this. How about when the Owners leaked the Couple's information?

    Aaira posted: »

    did they deny any other gay couple service on anything else?

  • It's a little unfair just to blame Catholics, because that's just the largest sect of Christianity, when far more offensive sects, with the likes of the Westboro Baptist Church exist.

    Oh my... No offense to Catholics but come on, it's just a friggin cake... Jeez. I get why the homo couple got offended, even though the two

  • JenniferJennifer Moderator
    edited August 2015

    People think places of business can be sneaky with discrimination by displaying those signs, since this:

    sign

    Is a lot more subtle than this:

    sign

    Luckily, when it comes to the courts that enforce the civil rights legislation, places using denial of service signs to refuse service to people based simply on who they are don't actually work.

    DAISHI posted: »

    How is it so many people know the phrase "We reserve the right to refuse service to anyone" but don't know the Civil Rights Act means you don't have that right? It's the whole reason black people can go into stores now.

  • Well, if you want to get into semantics, the bakery didn't deny them a regular cake for their wedding. It denied them a wedding cake, a specific product that's offered to other customers. So yeah, it's discrimination.

    Aaira posted: »

    a wedding isn't a person, so as far as i'm aware the baker wasn't discriminating against a person.

  • are you talking about the evangelic bakery that denied a lesbian (two women, not the OP's two men) a wedding cake in 2013 (not a month ago), when same sex marriages weren't legal in oregon?

    because that ended up with the bakery getting a 135k$ fine

    I don't know. They were probably only there for the cake. The owners did deny them because of their lifestyle, if you read up on one of the dozen articles about it, you would know this. How about when the Owners leaked the Couple's information?

  • JenniferJennifer Moderator
    edited August 2015

    They didn't deny a product to a wedding, as inanimate objects can't make financial transactions. They denied a wedding cake to a couple who wanted to get married because of their sexual orientation. As DomeWing333 alluded to, they denied the gay couple a product that was available for sale to every heterosexual couple who wanted one. That's not allowed under the Civil Rights Act of 1964, as that act gives individuals the right to equal protection under the law, and a federal commission ruled that sexual orientation was covered under the civil rights act.

    Aaira posted: »

    a wedding isn't a person, so as far as i'm aware the baker wasn't discriminating against a person.

  • edited August 2015

    Does this mean I can go to places with no shoes or shirt and still get service? :D

    This is sarcasm.

    Jennifer posted: »

    People think places of business can be sneaky with discrimination by displaying those signs, since this: Is a lot more subtle than th

  • edited August 2015

    do you think that, if two straight people had ordered a cake for their gay marriage, the bakery would have agreed? that if it was a gay couple ordering a cake for a straight wedding, they would have refused?

    that is why the discrimination wasn't on the people but on the event.

    Jennifer posted: »

    They didn't deny a product to a wedding, as inanimate objects can't make financial transactions. They denied a wedding cake to a couple who

  • JenniferJennifer Moderator
    edited August 2015

    That doesn't make any sense. The federal commission specifically stated that the Civil Rights Act outlaws discrimination based on sexual orientation. Denying service based on the sexual orientation of the people who are getting married is discrimination based on sexual orientation. It doesn't matter who in the wedding party tried to order the cake.

    Aaira posted: »

    do you think that, if two straight people had ordered a cake for their gay marriage, the bakery would have agreed? that if it was a gay coup

  • edited August 2015

    Pretty sure the one we're talking about is the one from shortly ago.

    http://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2015/jul/04/oregon-bakery-same-sex-marriage-lawsuit

    I'm right, we're talking about the same one, the women one which this discussion is about and...look, from last month. Sorry, you're wrong.

    Aaira posted: »

    are you talking about the evangelic bakery that denied a lesbian (two women, not the OP's two men) a wedding cake in 2013 (not a month ago),

  • that's the point, it doesn't matter who orders the cake, it doesn't matter what's the sexuality of the people getting married, what mattered to the bakers (as far as i know) is the marriage itself.

    they'd have had a problem with a straight guy marrying another straight guy

    Jennifer posted: »

    That doesn't make any sense. The federal commission specifically stated that the Civil Rights Act outlaws discrimination based on sexual or

  • only if you have a physical something that makes it impossible or harmful for you to wear shoes/shirt i think

    AAA_Jane posted: »

    Does this mean I can go to places with no shoes or shirt and still get service? This is sarcasm.

  • they'd have had a problem with a straight guy marrying another straight guy

    What? That makes no sense, if it's two men marrying then they're gay, they wouldn't be straight.

    Aaira posted: »

    that's the point, it doesn't matter who orders the cake, it doesn't matter what's the sexuality of the people getting married, what mattered

  • JenniferJennifer Moderator
    edited August 2015

    Exactly. As you said, they have a problem with marrying two men, which is discrimination based on sexual orientation.

    If a white person went into a shop to buy a wedding cake for a black friend, the cake shop owner can't just deny the cake to her because her friend is black, and then turn around and say it wasn't racial discrimination because the person who tried to order a cake for her black friend was white. It would still be racial discrimination because she denied service based on the race of the person to whom the product was going to be given.

    Aaira posted: »

    that's the point, it doesn't matter who orders the cake, it doesn't matter what's the sexuality of the people getting married, what mattered

  • edited August 2015

    nah, gay people married straight all the time

    you're not contractually obligated to love or want to fuck your partner

    they'd have had a problem with a straight guy marrying another straight guy What? That makes no sense, if it's two men marrying then they're gay, they wouldn't be straight.

  • edited August 2015

    ...you seem to have misunderstood my argument so let me start again

    guy A is straight, guy B is straight.

    A and B decide to get married, so they go to the first evangelic bakery they find and order a cake for their gay wedding.

    they're straight, yet their cake gets refused because their marriage (not them) isn't.

    they have a problem with a straight person marrying another straight person, which is discrimination based on sexual orientation.

    no they do not have a problem against 2 straight people marrying, provided it's not a gay marriage.

    Jennifer posted: »

    Exactly. As you said, they have a problem with marrying two men, which is discrimination based on sexual orientation. If a white person w

  • you're not contractually obligated to love or want to fuck your partner

    Your logic is giving me a headache.

    Aaira posted: »

    nah, gay people married straight all the time you're not contractually obligated to love or want to fuck your partner

  • you confirmed everything i said and then concluded with "you're wrong"

    what the hell

    Pretty sure the one we're talking about is the one from shortly ago. http://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2015/jul/04/oregon-bakery-same-se

  • Bruh, I said "We're talking about the same one" meaning everyone else in this thread was talking about the women last month not whatever two men you made up.

    Aaira posted: »

    you confirmed everything i said and then concluded with "you're wrong" what the hell

  • basically means straights can have all the gay weddings they like

    you're not contractually obligated to love or want to fuck your partner Your logic is giving me a headache.

  • JenniferJennifer Moderator
    edited August 2015

    It would still be discrimination based on sexual orientation since they'd still be considered a gay couple under the eyes of the law, as the only situation where this would make sense is one like Chuck and Larry, where they get married for benefits and they make every effort to appear gay so as to not get caught in their scam. Since they'd make every effort to appear to be a gay couple, the discrimination legislation based on sexual orientation would still hold (as their true orientation would, of course, not be revealed, lest they get caught in their ruse).

    no they do not have a problem against 2 straight people marrying, provided it's not a gay marriage.

    They definitely would. Straight people don't marry straight people of the same gender (except under unlawful circumstances), so they're not going to allow a cake just because two people of the same gender say they are straight, when they previously denied the cake to a gay couple.

    Aaira posted: »

    ...you seem to have misunderstood my argument so let me start again guy A is straight, guy B is straight. A and B decide to get marrie

  • You're telling me, that if I go marry another man, then it won't be gay? We would be a gay couple. We would be gay.

    Straight =/= gay therefore straight people can not have gay marriage.

    Aaira posted: »

    basically means straights can have all the gay weddings they like

  • so all those homosexuals that got into straight marriages are actually straight?

    You're telling me, that if I go marry another man, then it won't be gay? We would be a gay couple. We would be gay. Straight =/= gay therefore straight people can not have gay marriage.

  • Alright, well how about this.

    Man A is white, girl B is black.

    A and B decides to get married, so A goes to a bakery to order a cake for their wedding.

    The baker somehow finds out that A is marrying a black woman and refuses man A cake.

    You would say that's not discrimination?

    Aaira posted: »

    ...you seem to have misunderstood my argument so let me start again guy A is straight, guy B is straight. A and B decide to get marrie

  • What? Are you talking about closeted gay people?

    Aaira posted: »

    so all those homosexuals that got into straight marriages are actually straight?

  • edited August 2015

    because the problem there is that she's black

    in my example the problem wasn't that they were straight

    i didn't say "guy a is straight, girl B is a lesbian, bakers tell them to fuck off because lesbians" because that's discrimination

    DomeWing333 posted: »

    Alright, well how about this. Man A is white, girl B is black. A and B decides to get married, so A goes to a bakery to order a cake f

  • yup

    What? Are you talking about closeted gay people?

  • That doesn't make sense though, if two straight people of the same gender are marrying, they aren't straight. They are gay, there aren't closeted straight people because no one is afraid of being straight or coming out as straight and therefore don't have to fake a marriage in order to be accepted by society.

    Aaira posted: »

    yup

  • Well, the problem in my scenario is that the baker disapproves of a white man marrying a black woman. The fact that she's black is only objectionable because he's white. Just as in your scenario, the problem is that the baker disapproves of a man marrying a man. The fact that the other partner is a man is only objectionable because the first partner is also a man.

    And yet the baker's behavior in my scenario seems obviously discriminatory, no?

    Aaira posted: »

    because the problem there is that she's black in my example the problem wasn't that they were straight i didn't say "guy a is straight, girl B is a lesbian, bakers tell them to fuck off because lesbians" because that's discrimination

  • JenniferJennifer Moderator
    edited August 2015

    If a man who currently identifies as gay had a wife, he's actually bisexual, even if he leaves his wife because he prefers men over women.

    Contrary to popular opinion, bisexuality actually exists.

    If a man who currently identifies as straight had a husband, he'd be bisexual too (unless he entered the marriage illegally). Men don't marry men unless they're gay, bisexual or straight men who are illegally scamming the government out of benefits.

    Aaira posted: »

    so all those homosexuals that got into straight marriages are actually straight?

  • They definitely would. Straight people don't marry straight people of the same gender (except under unlawful circumstances), so they're not going to allow a cake just because someone says they are straight, when they previously denied the cake to a gay couple.

    ...that's my argument, if they let men marry each other only when they're straight but not when they're gay, that would be sexual orientation discrimination

    Jennifer posted: »

    It would still be discrimination based on sexual orientation since they'd still be considered a gay couple under the eyes of the law, as the

  • so if i find some ultra rich guy and marry him for money i automatically become bi even if i don't like men?

    Jennifer posted: »

    If a man who currently identifies as gay had a wife, he's actually bisexual, even if he leaves his wife because he prefers men over women.

  • No, that makes you a gold digger.

    Aaira posted: »

    so if i find some ultra rich guy and marry him for money i automatically become bi even if i don't like men?

  • Also worth noting that the bakery owners weren't trying to rip the couple off. They didn't take money from them or even act in a rude manner (as far as I know).

    Seriously, people argue over the dumbest things while real issues get ignored.

    Kenny/Lee posted: »

    I should've also clarified that the bakery owners leaking the couple's personal info was wrong, no question about that. But let's look at

  • even act in a rude manner (as far as I know).

    You know...Except leaking personal information.

    Also worth noting that the bakery owners weren't trying to rip the couple off. They didn't take money from them or even act in a rude manner (as far as I know). Seriously, people argue over the dumbest things while real issues get ignored.

  • JenniferJennifer Moderator

    That would make sense if it wasn't for the fact that straight men don't marry straight men except under illegal circumstances. That would be like complaining because a mall lets everyone else in except for those who have been banned for committing criminal acts.

    Aaira posted: »

    They definitely would. Straight people don't marry straight people of the same gender (except under unlawful circumstances), so they're not

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