What are some of your personal strengths and weaknesses?

edited January 2016 in General Chat

I haven't created a topic in a really, really long time, so I thought I'd contribute a little. Basically, just list what some of your strengths are, and then follow it up with some traits that you would maybe like to improve upon or even get rid of altogether. Of course it can be pretty low key and non personal if you want it to be. If you're feeling like you want to focus on specifically one aspect over the other, feel free to. I personally feel a little narcissistic when thinking about listing off personal strengths, but hey, I suppose It's good to give yourself some small compliments every once in awhile.

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Here are some of mine. I'll probably just go with five for each:

Strengths:

  • I feel like I have a bit of a knack for getting along with people. It takes quite a lot before I openly hold a grudge.
  • I'm very persistent, maybe even to the point of a flaw.
  • I'm flexible and relaxed.
  • I'm convincing (or at least I think I am)
  • I don't have many friends compared to most people, but I care immensely for those that are close to me, even if I don't make it really obvious.

Weaknesses:

  • I honestly have a bit of social anxiety. It used to be a little crippling when I was younger, but I have fought through it long enough that I can now sort of shove it to the back of my mind and go about my business. Sometimes its like its not even there at all, but it most definitely does resurface from time to time, though its usually pretty minor. In some ways, this is a little embarrassing to admit, but I've found that addressing it helps.
  • I think it's difficult to get me to a state where I'm furious, but for anyone who has seen me provoked to that point, I think they would say that I have quite a strong temper. To clarify, its not like I'm ever out of control, I just tend to unleash a bit of a verbal onslaught once I get to that point.. haha.
  • Sometimes I may be a little too prideful.
  • By contrast, I can also be unreasonably and irrationally hard on myself about the smallest of things.
  • I tend to internalize my stronger emotions and push people away. Sometimes I like being a mystery.
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  • Threads like this are always nice, I'm glad you created it. Here's my list:

    Strengths

    • I tend to be a very understanding person. I try to never judge people, everyone's flawed and sometimes I don't understand some things that I do, so how can I judge other people based on their acts (when they're not doing something too extreme/hurting other people,of course)?
    • When I'm not feeling shy, I'm very talkative. I love meeting new people, making new friends, and I like to talk with anyone. I'll never be rude to someone who wants to talk with me.
    • I'm a good listener. My friends vent to me and ask for advice all the time. I'm always willing to listen, and helping people makes me happy.
    • I'm usually an open minded person. While I'm confident about some of my opinions, my position on certain issues can change. We learn something new everyday, so why should my opinions always stay the same?
    • I tend to be very perfectionist. If I put my heart into something, it can't be just good, it has to be great.

    Weaknesses

    • I'm very shy and I lack confidence. I used to be a lot more timid in the past, but it's still a problem. I fear to sound stupid in front of people.
    • Again, I'm very perfectionist, and that can be a problem. I can be very very harsh on myself, and I tend to punish myself for the stupidest reasons.
    • Sometimes I feel like I'm too ''soft''. That may sound funny, considering that I've been in heated discussions here in the forums, but I truly HATE fights. Fighting with other people makes me feel bad, even when we're fighting for stupid reasons.
  • edited January 2016

    Can't say anything about my strengths, since I don't really know them and therefore it's not up to me to judge them.

    Some of the weaknesses are:

    • Severe indecisiveness.
    • Combined with above, but I'll list it here - cowardice.
    • Some shyness and social awkwardness, but, again, it's combined with the first one.
    • Being excessively stubborn.
    • Being rude and sometimes aggressive with people I actually care about.

    It's no surprise that I actually often hate myself.

  • edited January 2016

    I don't know much about my strengths, but certainly know some of my weaknesses:

    • I'm not persuasive/persistent. To get the things you want in life, we have to be able to persuade persons to help achieve that goal. There is only so much you can achieve truly on your own.

    • I'm a perfectionist (self-doubt or procastinator): it's a double edged sword. I try too hard on things that ultimately don't matter (& feel destroyed when things are not perfect) & I avoid doing things I feel I can't possibly achieve in (or at least procastinate , constantly overthinking how to greet & talk to people (leaving me very anxious) or attempt something so capriciously & haphazardly that I sabotage my own efforts (thus reaffirming my weakness of not being able to achieve).

    • I'm moody & I lack in acknowledging my own bad nonverbal cues and communication (especially under first impressions which does not bode well for new friendships, relationships [romantic & professional]).

    • I'm not very consistent....or at the very least my happy or manic moods are few and far between. I can met a person several times as a different person. I can do a task repeatedly with no problem then forget how to do it or it takes much more time to do. Shit the simplest words can take me many seconds to remember. And certain people I don't remember their names.

    *I'm aloof a lot of the time.

  • Strengths:
    I'm open minded and rational.
    I'm good at motivating and cheering people up.

    Weaknesses:
    My mood goes up and down. I think I'm somewhat bipolar.
    I sometimes can come off as rude when I don't mean to be.

  • edited January 2016

    Strengths: Not many really. I guess the only thing I can think of is that I am generous and helpful to others. I love to help others.

    Weaknesses: Haha who could count, but my main weakness is I have a temper and am somewhat bipolar and i get depressed more often than i'd like to admit.

  • Strength: I know the future.

    Weakness: Redheads.

  • Strenght: Since I have Aspergers Syndrome I have very easy to focus on many things (even though that it hasn´t always been that way, sadly.)

    Weakness: I have for sure overrated myself quite many times.

  • BigBlindMaxBigBlindMax Banned
    edited January 2016

    Strengths.

    • I'm a total Boy Scout, I genuinely enjoy helping people.

    • I'm laid-back, empathetic and a good listener.

    • I'm fairly imaginative.

    • I have a great head for writing and public speaking, a very good vocabulary and a flair for persuasion and rhetoric.

    Weakness

    • I'm scatterbrained, indecisive and somewhat undisciplined.

    • I'm mysterious in a bad way. I have trouble expressing my emotions and thought process to people I care about.

    • I'm impatient, I'm sometimes satisfied with half-assed jobs.

    • I'm stubborn and occasional humiliation in school have made me reluctant to ask for help when perhaps I need it..

    • I'm combative about some things. "Discretion is the better part of valor" is something I have trouble with.

  • edited January 2016

    Strengths:

    1. Well organized
    2. I always plan ahead
    3. Good work ethic
    4. Perfectionist
    5. Mostly relaxed

    Weaknesses:

    1. Perfectionist (it's both)
    2. Lack confidence and am very shy
    3. Lack social graces
    4. Too self conscious
    5. Hate change, even if it's very tiny
    6. Take things way too seriously
    7. Am way too self critical and hard on myself
  • edited January 2016

    Strengths:

    All of them

    Weaknesses:

    None

  • Weakness: Redheads.

    I'm there with you.

    Strength: I know the future. Weakness: Redheads.

  • Strengths:

    • Hard worker
    • Compassionate
    • Very easy to get along with
    • Laid back and drama free. Life is too short for BS. :3
    • Drawing, sketching and being creative
    • Wonderful father/role model for my daughters

    Weaknesses:

    • I can't stand change. I know life is all about change but I like consistency
    • Big butts
    • Black girls
    • Stubborn as hell
    • Bacon Cheeseburgers
  • Strengths:

    • Writing
    • Nice (sometimes)
    • A little bit of sketching.
    • Creative

    Weaknesses:

    • Lazy
    • Easily depressed
    • Easily stressed out
    • No self esteem at all
    • Pays no attention
    • A coward
    • Can not talk to anyone for more than 5 seconds without stuttering and/or going quite.
  • Writes all of this down

    Good to know all of your strengths and weaknesses guys, it'll definitely help me.

  • Strengths:

    • I've got a good amount of self-esteem.
    • I know when to give people space or when to let a subject drop.
    • I don't seek out unnecessary confrontation.
    • I'm content with working in the background.
    • I'm trustworthy.
    • I'm practical.

    Weaknesses:

    • I'm very socially reserved.
    • I take perfectionism to the extreme.
    • I can easily fall into arrogance if I'm not careful.
    • I'm incredibly obsessive.
    • I'm vengeful.
    • I'm prone to overthinking.
    • I'm uncomfortable with physical affection.
    • I'm inconsistent with what I say and do.
    • Sarcasm.
  • omg same ;)

    Strengths: Not many really. I guess the only thing I can think of is that I am generous and helpful to others. I love to help others. Wea

  • Use it wisely.

    dojo32161 posted: »

    Writes all of this down Good to know all of your strengths and weaknesses guys, it'll definitely help me.

  • Maybe cocky can be your negative ;p

    papai46 posted: »

    Strengths: All of them Weaknesses: None

  • FITE M3 IN IRL M8!

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    Maybe cocky can be your negative ;p

  • Strong points.

    1. Confident.
    2. Always defend friends
    3. Trustworthy, although I can't be if you're a dick.

    Weak points:

    1. Sarcasm
    2. Monotone voice, that doesn't go well with a sarcastic attitude.
    3. Lazy
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    papai46 posted: »

    FITE M3 IN IRL M8!

  • edited January 2016

    STRENGTHS.

    • Able to (mostly) retain all information I read about.
    • Very amicable around people. Even those I do not nescessarily get along with.
    • Difficult to offend.
    • Articulate vocabulary.
    • Protective of Family and Friends.

    WEAKNESSES

    • Prone to anxiety.
    • Can be socially awkward.
    • Can be too much of a people pleaser (Or in other words, find it hard to say no to other people)
    • My sense of humour is predominately sarcastic.
  • edited January 2016

    Strengths:

    1: I like to think that I'm creative

    2: I like to make people laugh

    3: Polite to others

    Weaknesses:

    1: Lazy

    2: I have trouble expressing my emotions.

    3: I used to have really terrible social anxiety. And while it's gotten a lot better over time, part of it still resonates deep within me and it's resulted in some very awkward and uncomfortable moments that honestly make me cringe every time I think about them.

  • edited January 2016

    Strengths:

    • Can do a somersault

    Weaknesses:

    • Somersault trick doesn't work on ladies
  • Yep right there with you on the weakness lol. I love redheads. Not a huge fan of blonds though

    Strength: I know the future. Weakness: Redheads.

  • Strengths:

    Everything

    Weaknesses:

    Kryptonite

  • edited January 2016

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  • Strengths

    • Good writer.
    • Natural leadership skills.
    • Good public speaker (apparently).
    • Emotionally and mentally "strong".
    • Awesome and very vast music taste.
    • Additionally, very vast and vivid vocabulary.
    • Strong morals and opinions.
    • Creative.
    • Empathetic.
    • Great with animals.
    • I know Jiu Jitsu.

    Weaknesses

    • I'm shy and socially awkward.
    • Indecisive and wishy-washy.
    • Laziness.
    • Trust issues.
    • I have a difficult time expressing emotions.
    • I'm a perfectionist and I have OCD.
    • Aggressive and hot-headed at times.
    • Will pick beliefs over friends and family.
    • Suck at every video game I've ever played.
    • Self-pitying and a little cold.
  • pudding_pie posted: »

    Strengths: * Hard worker * Compassionate * Very easy to get along with * Laid back and drama free. Life is too short for BS. * Dra

  • edited January 2016

    [Strengths]

    • Creative
    • Empathetic
    • Astute
    • Supportive
    • Problem solver
    • Humorous
    • Morality
    • Takes no shit

    [Weakness]

    • Anxiety
    • Leadership
    • Bravery
    • Confidence
    • Sensitive
    • Self-consciousness
    • Overthinking
    • Crosswords

    ....I feel like these are things that would pop up if I was in an Until Dawn game.

  • Strenghts:

    High working-morale.

    Trustworthy.

    Weakness:

    Even if it was much worse earlier, I get too emotional sometimes which makes me look like a feeble idiot. Feeble is another word for weak.

  • edited January 2016

    Strength: I can understand pretty much any concept I set my mind to. (EDIT: Except the difference between who and whom, that all forever perplex me.)

    Weakness: I hate everything, though I try to convince myself I don't.

    Undecided: For better or worse, I'm becoming more and more apathetic.

  • edited January 2016

    Whom is used when the subject is in the oblique case. Otherwise, one says who. Here is the satirical comic that taught me this.

    Viva-La-Lee posted: »

    Strength: I can understand pretty much any concept I set my mind to. (EDIT: Except the difference between who and whom, that all forever per

  • Strength strengthened! I doubt I'll have the wherewithal to use the correct one in conversation, but at least I'll be able to know if I was right or wrong in retrospect! Thanks!

    Whom is used when the subject is in the oblique case. Otherwise, one says who. Here is the satirical comic that taught me this.

  • edited January 2016

    I'm incredibly fucking humble, I'm pretty sure I'm probably the most modest person in the world. More than anyone you've ever seen before.

  • Pffft, you're not half as humble as I am! I'm so humble, I could write a best-seller about being humble!

    I'm incredibly fucking humble, I'm pretty sure I'm probably the most modest person in the world. More than anyone you've ever seen before.

  • Strength.

    • Not that many friends. I have a small group at school, and a small group on the internet. Kinda helps, cause I don't really have to choose a friends side. (Unless we are playing a tag-team video game, then I have to make a choice.)
    • My humorous side, which actually really helps with comebacks, believe it or not.
    • I'm uh, creative in a odd way. I made a few absurd stories. (My favorite being Donald Trump Goes to War. Note: Not a Trump supporter.)
    • I have a good control of my anger. I rarely snap.
    • I'm pretty good at Super Smash Brothers. (And other fighting titles, such as Mortal Kombat X.)
    • I can make good choices, but that's a matter of opinion. Guess good leadership can fit into that, but that's probably just me being cocky.

    Weaknesses

    • Although I can keep my anger inside, I get annoyed easily. I just don't show it.
    • Not really good at paying attention to people.
    • I can't do the genocide route of Undertale. Breaks my heart.
    • Cannot do heat. My energy is weakened by heat.
    • If someone is way too emotional, I stop listening to their problems. I try, but if they are cry about something every day, I just stop listening. (So far, I've only seen one person do this, thank god.)
    • I try to do a dick route of games, but I end up being nice.
  • edited January 2016

    You have twice as many weaknesses as strengths why you do this to yourself?

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    You see yourself as a lazy stressed out depressed coward who can hardly interact and can't pay attention wat

    Why so hard on yourself? I seen a few people do this why so many users seem to bully themselves with so many negative perceptions of themselves with so few strengths which subconsciously will become reality as they believe it.

    Believe in yourself list more strengths please make it at least even sorry to single you out this post caught my eye

    lottii-lu posted: »

    Strengths: * Writing * Nice (sometimes) * A little bit of sketching. * Creative Weaknesses: * Lazy * Easily depressed * E

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    More strengths lilac I know you well you awesome come on :P

    *Smart
    *writing
    *Nice

    as well

    Lilacsbloom posted: »

    [Strengths] * Creative * Empathetic * Astute * Supportive * Problem solver * Humorous * Morality * Takes no shit [Weakness]

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