Advice for attracting women.

edited June 2016 in General Chat

So I have seen people posting comments on here, and some of them having trouble finding a girlfriend. Now I'm not going to go into a whole bunch of stuff, but the biggest piece of advice that I can give to you, is to first just try to be friends with her.

The worst thing you can do is come on too strong, or as needy and insecure, as that will drive women away like they just crossed paths with a skunk. As will checking out their tits while talking to them, or making inappropriate comments - particularly those of a sexual nature.

And if you are able to make friends with her, that's great. And if later on down the line, you feel like asking her out, then go ahead and ask her, as the worst things you can do is turn it down. Don't be afraid if she does turn you down, because let me tell you something there are so many women out there, it's not even funny.

One quick word of advice though, if you have already asked, and she says no, then leave it at that and don't ask again, nor imply anything resembling it, not even in a joking manner, when you talk to her.

And the reason why I say that is because it can get you labeled as a creep, and since women talk to each other, that's the very last thing that you want. If she says no, don't pursue it any further.

And here's something interesting, is that when you stop actually pursuing women, and just focus on trying to better yourself as a person, that women will start to come to you.

One of the best things you can do, is to pursue something that you're passionate about. For instance, if you're passionate about music, Sports, race cars, or whatever it is, pursue that.

And the better you become at whatever your passionate about, the more your confidence will grow. And women are drawn to a man who is confident.

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  • In short don't be Trevor Phillips.

  • edited May 2016

    I do my mating call

    the meme no one knows about

    Don't worry guys, it always gets me some ( ͡~ ͜ʖ ͡°)

  • Oh my ( ͡° ل͜ ͡°)

    lottii-lu posted: »

    I do my mating call the meme no one knows about Don't worry guys, it always gets me some ( ͡~ ͜ʖ ͡°)

  • So I have seen people posting comments on here, and some of them having trouble finding a girlfriend.

    Couldn't you just have PMed me? This didn't have to be public. Jeez... (jk)

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  • You don't need to have skill when you have...

    ROPHYS!

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    Sorry. I'll see myself out.

  • This is good advice. The opposite sex isnt a alien monster thing its just people, people who are also shy and insecure.

  • Sounds like he is saying we should call Aflac :)

    lottii-lu posted: »

    I do my mating call the meme no one knows about Don't worry guys, it always gets me some ( ͡~ ͜ʖ ͡°)

    • Be confident.
    • Be interesting.
    • Don't be repulsive.

    Improve yourself with anything that enhances one of the above. It's not that complicated.

    Oh, and ignore all the pick-up artist advice. You won't find true love that way.

  • everyones an alien monster

    This is good advice. The opposite sex isnt a alien monster thing its just people, people who are also shy and insecure.

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    everyones an alien monster

  • How to attract females?

    First, build a nest. Bitches love nests.

    Second, dance like a maniac. Bitches love maniacs, I mean dancing.

  • It's true!

    Viva-La-Lee posted: »

    How to attract females? First, build a nest. Bitches love nests. Second, dance like a maniac. Bitches love maniacs, I mean dancing.

  • edited June 2016

    That cockatoo has watched way to much Mars Attacks.
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    lottii-lu posted: »

    I do my mating call the meme no one knows about Don't worry guys, it always gets me some ( ͡~ ͜ʖ ͡°)

  • Meh. I'm not confident enough to ask out the girl I like, but we are very good friends so I mean it's cool. Good advice though.

  • You get a big box.
    You write "Free Shoes Inside" on the box.
    You wait til a female climbs into the box.
    You close the lid.

  • Well im not an expert at all... so just be yourself, i mean it works, unless you're weird like me

  • The Best way to get a Attracive chick to cling onto you I saying "Swiggity Swooty I'm comin for that booty"

  • 1.Be confident
    2.Don't be a creeper
    3.Become friends first then as the relationship develops over time go from there.

  • Girls want to be loved just as much as guys to attract an average girl is simple. I give you simple things the average girl looks for

    Be confident, well groomed, be billionaire, muscular, 7ft 2 at least under gtfo manlets, live in mansion, be supermodel, Have expensive car, pay for everything, Massive D, Be successful and always busy yet spend all time on them, Expensive suits and jeans everyday.

    Or be channing Tatum or Ryan Reynolds

    WARNING

    Remember before you think ur now the master of romance after following my tips, this only what 5/10 and below girls want.

    Anything above I need write a book

  • edited June 2016

    What not to do: Don't expect me to drop my panties just because you're nice. Seriously, don't.

    Be confident, be respectful, and have dignity. Do not allow girls to take advantage of you. Be a friend. Be yourself. See if you guys have any common interests... Like video games, or books, for example. Or sports. And don't try to sell us drugs.

    Word of Advice: DO NOT go up to a girl you don't know and ask for her number. Speaking from experience, it's a complete turn-off to find out that a guy only likes you 'cause of your large ass, and not for your personality or something else. It's a good idea to get to know the girl you like first. And let her get to know you. Please, don't be creepy.

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