I am sick and tired of always being a social outcast. I've always been one all my life. I have never fit in anywhere.
Even when my social skills were much much better than what they are now, it was still the same old story.
And I completely understand that not everybody cliques with one another. And nobody fits in with every single person that they meet. But as I already said, I have never fit in anywhere - period.
So what is the solution - when the outcome is always the same?
I am sick and tired of always being a social outcast. I've always been one all my life. I have never fit in anywhere.
Even when my social… more skills were much much better than what they are now, it was still the same old story.
And I completely understand that not everybody cliques with one another. And nobody fits in with every single person that they meet. But as I already said, I have never fit in anywhere - period.
So what is the solution - when the outcome is always the same?
I can understand how you feel. I get worried and panicked pretty easily, and I can't force myself not to care what people at school think, so interacting with people that I'm not close with are a nightmare. I don't like talking about myself in real life or sharing my opinions because I hate being judged.
If you haven't tried it already, then maybe you could try and branch out to some other online forums. Granted, I can understand if you'd want to meet people in real life instead, but meeting people on other forums could be a temporary answer. Quite a lot of forums out there are focused on particular areas of discussion or particular hobbies, so you might have an easier time finding a forum that focuses on the things you like to discuss.
For all it's faults, the internet is a great way to talk and share ideas.
I am sick and tired of always being a social outcast. I've always been one all my life. I have never fit in anywhere.
Even when my social… more skills were much much better than what they are now, it was still the same old story.
And I completely understand that not everybody cliques with one another. And nobody fits in with every single person that they meet. But as I already said, I have never fit in anywhere - period.
So what is the solution - when the outcome is always the same?
I feel you.. I feel as if I am not interesting enough to be in any kind of clique. I believe I can get good enough with everyone if I want to but....it is just that.
Maybe it all end the same because you overthink it ; "Will I fit in now? Do they like me? Am I boring? What do they think of me?". Maybe some kind of solution is to let people have their opinions, they think you are good or not, and you stay yourself no matter what they think because frankly, you cannot control someone's thoughts.
From what I've seen, the person who is always positive, funny, talkative, shares all kind ofpast experiences, attracts a lot of people. I am not saying you should become like that, you create your own self, although the thing I've always wanted is people to actually care about me. Are you in college? Have a job?
I am sick and tired of always being a social outcast. I've always been one all my life. I have never fit in anywhere.
Even when my social… more skills were much much better than what they are now, it was still the same old story.
And I completely understand that not everybody cliques with one another. And nobody fits in with every single person that they meet. But as I already said, I have never fit in anywhere - period.
So what is the solution - when the outcome is always the same?
I feel you.. I feel as if I am not interesting enough to be in any kind of clique. I believe I can get good enough with everyone if I want t… moreo but....it is just that.
Maybe it all end the same because you overthink it ; "Will I fit in now? Do they like me? Am I boring? What do they think of me?". Maybe some kind of solution is to let people have their opinions, they think you are good or not, and you stay yourself no matter what they think because frankly, you cannot control someone's thoughts.
From what I've seen, the person who is always positive, funny, talkative, shares all kind ofpast experiences, attracts a lot of people. I am not saying you should become like that, you create your own self, although the thing I've always wanted is people to actually care about me. Are you in college? Have a job?
I know this is nothing compared to what other people on this thread are going through... But I tried to lift a snail with a branch on to a tree so it could be safe, and accidentally ripped it's face off
I don't know why but I think this adds to the reasons I'm probably going to hell
I know this is nothing compared to what other people on this thread are going through... But I tried to lift a snail with a branch on to a t… moreree so it could be safe, and accidentally ripped it's face off
I don't know why but I think this adds to the reasons I'm probably going to hell
I once had a 50 LBS sink drop on the tip of my third finger. Got a huge pot nail as a reult, but interestingly didn't lode the nail, or had any other damage to my finger.
But at the time it hurt like hell. I was 16 at the time, but I ended up crying like a 5 year old kid!
And a couple of years ago, I accidentally had a Swiss Army Knife fold on my index finger - cut it right down to the bone. No nerve damage - but damn it hurt like a bitch!
No, after everything settled it wasn't that bad, it got my finger but nothing down to the bone luckily, I thought I got the entire top of my thumb but it was pretty fine.
Did you cry?
I once had a 50 LBS sink drop on the tip of my third finger. Got a huge pot nail as a reult, but interestingly didn't lode t… morehe nail, or had any other damage to my finger.
But at the time it hurt like hell. I was 16 at the time, but I ended up crying like a 5 year old kid!
And a couple of years ago, I accidentally had a Swiss Army Knife fold on my index finger - cut it right down to the bone. No nerve damage - but damn it hurt like a bitch!
Why do you think your social skills are worse now than they used to be? Did something change? Did everyone else change and what used to work doesn't anymore? Or do you just not try anymore?
I am sick and tired of always being a social outcast. I've always been one all my life. I have never fit in anywhere.
Even when my social… more skills were much much better than what they are now, it was still the same old story.
And I completely understand that not everybody cliques with one another. And nobody fits in with every single person that they meet. But as I already said, I have never fit in anywhere - period.
So what is the solution - when the outcome is always the same?
So no school anymore. Maybe you should volunteer somewhere, doing some charity,that could help you relax a bit and help a lot of people at the same time. Use your passions to do something.
Are your social skills worse now because of lack of confidence?
No, after everything settled it wasn't that bad, it got my finger but nothing down to the bone luckily, I thought I got the entire top of my thumb but it was pretty fine.
I didn't cry but I said fuck...a lot.
So no school anymore. Maybe you should volunteer somewhere, doing some charity,that could help you relax a bit and help a lot of people at t… morehe same time. Use your passions to do something.
Are your social skills worse now because of lack of confidence?
Quite frankly, I haven't been getting out and using them, like I used too. But like I said earlier, even when my social skills were much better, people still just weren't overly drawn to me. Like I said they never have been.
Why do you think your social skills are worse now than they used to be? Did something change? Did everyone else change and what used to work doesn't anymore? Or do you just not try anymore?
I know this is nothing compared to what other people on this thread are going through... But I tried to lift a snail with a branch on to a t… moreree so it could be safe, and accidentally ripped it's face off
I don't know why but I think this adds to the reasons I'm probably going to hell
Drawn to you. What kind of people are you drawn to? Whether we like it or not, we subconsciously 'judge' the other person, if they are worth our time or not, do we feel some kind of a respect towards them.
People are not drawn to me either, it is a sad fact of my life, still trying to figure out whether I can change that or not. I'd personally be drawn to a person that sees potential in everyone, can start a conversation with me because they simply want to, a person who doesn't let their anger and negative emotions out on others. That's the exact person I want to become.
Are you satisfied with your personality as it is currently? Have you accepted all your flaws or are you somehow trying to fix them? Do you want to stay the same or change? If yes, why do you want to change? I believe these are important questions for you and everyone.
Perhaps to agree, but I would say more so because quite frankly I haven't been getting out as much I previously had been.
Now without say… moreing too much, I realize that the reason for not doing so is my fault.
But for the most part, people are just simply not drawn to me.
Did you cry?
I once had a 50 LBS sink drop on the tip of my third finger. Got a huge pot nail as a reult, but interestingly didn't lode t… morehe nail, or had any other damage to my finger.
But at the time it hurt like hell. I was 16 at the time, but I ended up crying like a 5 year old kid!
And a couple of years ago, I accidentally had a Swiss Army Knife fold on my index finger - cut it right down to the bone. No nerve damage - but damn it hurt like a bitch!
A heavy storm hit on Thursday and cut off the Internet and I still don't have it. I've missed many things like several livestreams I could take part in. I can't do anything on this piss mobile Internet.
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Literally every person ever. Why? Did you lose someone?
Yeah. I was 3 when it happened, though.
If anyone's been to the abusive parent thread, you'd know what I'm gonna say.
5 years since my Nan died. Unbelievable how fast time has gone...
It's been...damn near 15 years since my brother died. Feels like forever ago.
I was making pizza and cut my finger open. Hahahah...I should've ordered fucking take out.
It's fine now but motherfucker, it sucked in the moment.
I am sick and tired of always being a social outcast. I've always been one all my life. I have never fit in anywhere.
Even when my social skills were much much better than what they are now, it was still the same old story.
And I completely understand that not everybody cliques with one another. And nobody fits in with every single person that they meet. But as I already said, I have never fit in anywhere - period.
So what is the solution - when the outcome is always the same?
Ouch!
Start living your own life, do what you want to do. You can't spend your life worrying about being someone else.
I never go out, I never liked it so I don't, i'm not doing things to please other people, I do it for myself.
Until you change your mentality and outlook instead of looking too far forward you will stay an 'outcast'
I can understand how you feel. I get worried and panicked pretty easily, and I can't force myself not to care what people at school think, so interacting with people that I'm not close with are a nightmare. I don't like talking about myself in real life or sharing my opinions because I hate being judged.
If you haven't tried it already, then maybe you could try and branch out to some other online forums. Granted, I can understand if you'd want to meet people in real life instead, but meeting people on other forums could be a temporary answer. Quite a lot of forums out there are focused on particular areas of discussion or particular hobbies, so you might have an easier time finding a forum that focuses on the things you like to discuss.
For all it's faults, the internet is a great way to talk and share ideas.
And again, why would anyone want to remember that? Some memories are better left buried, everyone's lost someone.
I feel you.. I feel as if I am not interesting enough to be in any kind of clique. I believe I can get good enough with everyone if I want to but....it is just that.
Maybe it all end the same because you overthink it ; "Will I fit in now? Do they like me? Am I boring? What do they think of me?". Maybe some kind of solution is to let people have their opinions, they think you are good or not, and you stay yourself no matter what they think because frankly, you cannot control someone's thoughts.
From what I've seen, the person who is always positive, funny, talkative, shares all kind ofpast experiences, attracts a lot of people. I am not saying you should become like that, you create your own self, although the thing I've always wanted is people to actually care about me. Are you in college? Have a job?
Nothing worse than the cuts from really sharp knives. Those fuckers make me queasy..
Yeah, it hurt in the moment I tell you.
I always try to be careful, slipped up sadly.
I'm over 21. Past college age. Not gonna say how old I am exactly.
I know this is nothing compared to what other people on this thread are going through... But I tried to lift a snail with a branch on to a tree so it could be safe, and accidentally ripped it's face off
I don't know why but I think this adds to the reasons I'm probably going to hell
Road to hell is paved with good intentions, amirite?
I'm sorry. If it helps, at least it didn't suffer.
Did you cry?
I once had a 50 LBS sink drop on the tip of my third finger. Got a huge pot nail as a reult, but interestingly didn't lode the nail, or had any other damage to my finger.
But at the time it hurt like hell. I was 16 at the time, but I ended up crying like a 5 year old kid!
And a couple of years ago, I accidentally had a Swiss Army Knife fold on my index finger - cut it right down to the bone. No nerve damage - but damn it hurt like a bitch!
Fucking heatwaves.
No, after everything settled it wasn't that bad, it got my finger but nothing down to the bone luckily, I thought I got the entire top of my thumb but it was pretty fine.
I didn't cry but I said fuck...a lot.
Why do you think your social skills are worse now than they used to be? Did something change? Did everyone else change and what used to work doesn't anymore? Or do you just not try anymore?
So no school anymore. Maybe you should volunteer somewhere, doing some charity,that could help you relax a bit and help a lot of people at the same time. Use your passions to do something.
Are your social skills worse now because of lack of confidence?
I see, because if you did cry, I was going to offer you a tissue.
Perhaps to agree, but I would say more so because quite frankly I haven't been getting out as much I previously had been.
Now without saying too much, I realize that the reason for not doing so is my fault.
But for the most part, people are just simply not drawn to me.
Quite frankly, I haven't been getting out and using them, like I used too. But like I said earlier, even when my social skills were much better, people still just weren't overly drawn to me. Like I said they never have been.
Meanwhile over here rain was pouring all day.
...
So is that massive moth that I brutally decapitated a few days ago
Same... Where I live it's stopped now though
Still going here.
Edit: It's getting stronger ._.
Drawn to you. What kind of people are you drawn to? Whether we like it or not, we subconsciously 'judge' the other person, if they are worth our time or not, do we feel some kind of a respect towards them.
People are not drawn to me either, it is a sad fact of my life, still trying to figure out whether I can change that or not. I'd personally be drawn to a person that sees potential in everyone, can start a conversation with me because they simply want to, a person who doesn't let their anger and negative emotions out on others. That's the exact person I want to become.
Are you satisfied with your personality as it is currently? Have you accepted all your flaws or are you somehow trying to fix them? Do you want to stay the same or change? If yes, why do you want to change? I believe these are important questions for you and everyone.
I feel ya. That's one of the main reasons why I hate summer. :I
It would have to be a lot worse to make me cry.
Goddamn Swiss Army knives man! Almost the same thing happened to me. The thing closed on my thumb, severed a vein and damaged the muscle.
You clearly missed the sarcasm.
Oh shit! How is it now?
I noticed it, I just didn't really care.
i'd swear it's a little stiffer and harder to move around than the other thumb, but it works fine. Mind you, it happened about 12 years ago.
A heavy storm hit on Thursday and cut off the Internet and I still don't have it. I've missed many things like several livestreams I could take part in. I can't do anything on this piss mobile Internet.
I'm kinda angry.