Why am I not well liked among my group of friends? (males)
Hi, I am a male and I don't act very differently from the well like ones, nor am I even annoying. I am even better looking.
But I feel like my group (a popular one) is just making use of me. But treats me good when I TREAT THEM good.
But when there is a difficult task, they choose me.
Are they real friends? Or am I just not well liked for some reason.
help pls
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That's not nice.
Lmao
We can't detect all your traits through the computer, so we can't really say if there's anything not to like about you.
It sounds like if you treat them well, then they treat you well, and everybody's happy. No problem there.
I don't know what a "difficult task" is. Does that mean they just trust you more to accomplish something than others? Or is it, "OK, lunch is over, ScooterPlotsArmour has to clean up all the trash as usual."? If they're always asking you to do something for them, try asking one of them to do something for you some time, and see what happens.
Anyway, you can't make people like you, and chances are, as your lives move ahead, everyone in the group will drift apart. If you're not getting what you want from these people, look elsewhere.
This comment earned all my respect.
Well, I guess you're that friend that is liked but is used as a scapegoat, I'm pretty sure every group of friends have one and you're just the unlucky dude.
Why so?
Its the trust me more thing. But I am pretty sure they do. But then again, they keep giving me the task I dont wanna do because somehow "trust me more". I am pretty sure it backfires. Thats what they appear to mean but truth is they don't wanna do it themselves but gang up on me.