What are your dealbreakers in relationships?
And any dealbreaker that made you reconsider a relationship you were in
Mine are
Smoker
Heavy Drinker
Drug user
Has Aids or other sexual disease
Can't speak English
No motivation to succeed, negative and doesn't care about grades has no dream or ambition in life
Cheater
etc
You?
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Cuckold.
Cannot make compromises for minor issues.
"Open minded" in the sense that she would be okay with having sex with multiple men while seeing me... so I guess cuckold still.
Heavy drug abuser and not seeking help.
Alcoholic.
Fat. I'm not talking about curvy or even excess pudge. I'm talking saggy.
Bigoted when I met them.
Not being a women!
Basically everything you said with the exception of English.
Also I like to add, if the girl is mentally weird and unstable, no thanks. I like girls who are sane and kind.
Considering I'm disabled because of mental issues, partially blind and can't drive? I had very few issues i wasn't willing to overlook when i was single.
I’ve racked up a few based on my dating experience
Lack of goals is a biggie (like any goals)
Smug/overbearing attitude
Everything is a competition
No intellectual curiosity
Ignores simple requests; corollary: Little/no respect for boundaries; also related: tone deaf in bed
Lack of basic self care/adult skills
Can’t/won’t play Portal 2 co-op with me*
*Seriously. Really fun and phenomenal way to try out communication skills/compatibility
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If he or she says no sex
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Alcoholic, drug user (weed being the exception), narcissist, cheater, rude.
There's probably more, but those are all the ones I can think of right now.
When the girl is a complete bitch. Otherwise I'm fine with them doing whatever as long as they're a good person and they're loyal in a relationship. Whether they smoke, drink or are fuckin' furries or some shit is fine with me. As long as they don't fucking suck as humans.
HOLY 7-POST BATMAN
I know but you have my personal assurance that I flagged everyone that isn't the original
When she pulls out the chainsaw....
Cool.
Rude
Sexist
Racist
Dislikes what I do and tries to change me
Doesn't try in school
Shallow
And Especially
Ships Gabentine
jk any ship is fine plz no kill
Liars (small, trivial is fine, but ones that affect the relationship is a no-no)
Cheaters (once I'll forgive, but twice I'm gone)
Bigots and Xenophobes (being critical and having opinions are fine but I won't stand for outright hate. I need someone who's accepting, especially because I come from a differing culture)
unhygienic
Alcoholics (Drinking is fine, but if someone has a problem when they drink then I won't be happy)
Illegal drugs
Abuse of any kind
Anyone I consider having a bad personality
They have to be good with their money (not squander it and use their funds responsibly). This probably ties into me not being able to handle gamblers too,
oh yes now this is a important one
phlegmatic
extroverted (always wanting to go out)
that kinda person who tells mentally ill people to "just think ositively it will go away"
cheater
rude
nymphomaniac
still in that age when she sits on a d!ck instead of a seat even on public transport
not caring about her looks -> for example fat (especially when that kinda fat when she's like "oh no I'm so fat that makes me sad and when i'm sad i eat chocolate" fat [had a classmate like that back in the day])
smoker
likes getting/being drunk
flirting with other guys (while I'm there, when i'm not if she only flirts with them nothing else its not that big deal)
hysteric
gets offended over everything, and instead of being able to talk it through, she keeps acting like a child
drug user (especially weed lol)
liar
Well that's all that came to my mind atm.
Being dishonest
.Liars
. Close-minded
.Unemotional
.Selfish
.Overprotective
Selfishness.
Relationships are about both people. If your partner doesn't grasp that, then it's only a matter of time before you're screwed over.
I'm not a fan of girls talk jack behind the ones they "love"s back.
I hate girls who lie
I hate girls who cheat
But the biggest deal breaker for me is people who act on emotion and don't think clearly. It's just a horrible way to start off a relationship
A big one of mine is any guy or girl who tries to pressure me into sex before marriage. If you want sex, marry me first. Granted, I'm only 15, so I'm below my state's age of consent anyway.
Narcissism and gluttony are big ones for me as well.
I'm not really picky about my women. The only dealbreaker for me is that if someone is overweight. I guess I got lucky when I found mine because I stumbled upon a goldmine.
'Cuckold' means 'someone who gets cheated on', not 'some who cheats'. You are the cuckold in this situation.