Don't you think, us women also have the right to court?
1) Don't you think, us women also have the right to court the opposite sex? or at least tell a person we like him, or want him to court us?
2) Why is it that it's always men who court, and women can't?
3) Shouldn't we be given the chance to have someone we like and not be limited to only the males who court us?
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Well I have...so I say yes.
My girlfriend asked me out the first time.
Maybe because women don't?
I've had quite a few girls ask me out before. I think I only made the first move once or twice.
Generally the social responsibility of initiating a relationship has always been on men. Personally, I wouldn't have a problem if a girl asked me out. I'd actually consider it, because it shows that they're actually interested.
Who's stopping you?
I wish women would have ever tried to go after me.
I personally wouldn't because I am really introverted and shy. But this is 2017: I doubt anyone cares,
Who's telling you that you don't? Almost everyone girl I've gone out with was the one to ask me.
I thought you were asking if women are allowed to go through trial before being thrown in jail lol gg.
I'm a guy and i never thought of women approaching a guy first to be weird. As long as she's not trying to waste my time i'd actually like it.
All the 3000 girlfriends I had asked me out. Yep no big deal.
Find me this law and post it.
I have never once met a woman who asked me out. I'm always the one who has to make the effort to do so.
No one's stopping you, in fact I and many others would probably appreciate it. I'm a shy guy and can't really approach anyone (I'm not a real looker either, so there's that).
You may not be aware of this, but there is no law saying that men have to do the courting. Women can and do make the first move.
I think if you want to, do it! Its 2017! A guy would actually appreciate that you took the pressure to ask them out.
This is not true at all, why would you ever feel this way?
I assume your from a backwoods area or maybe a religious background because this is not something that I have ever felt
Sure. It shouldn't matter what sex you are. But nobody likes regection.
You absolutely can, and the guy you ask is going to feel awesome! However, there are a few pitfalls you should be aware of:
Have fun!
I'm ridiculously shy, or at least have been until recently. The vast majority of my relationships have come from women initiating because I'm incapable of doing it myself. I love when girls have the cojones to make the first move. Do it, fuckin' do it.
My girlfriend was the one who asked.
so yep.
I'm super religious, I go to church about 3 times a week and all, but girls do all the stuff guys can do (at least at my church)
Why do you ask? If you're from western word you'll do whatever you want.
Nearly sure 99% of guys would LOVE a girl to ask them out, I would
Personally I only ever heard girls saying guys must do all the courting as an excuse not to face any potiential rejection and wanting guys to do all the work :P
Why do guys always pay for dinner?
For me personally when on my last date I paid for dinner
Because really liked the girl so did everything I could for her to enjoy the date and not worry about any expenses show her I'm willing to go extra mile show her I care.
Don't want to give you great excuse to not call back.
Um, sure...Wasn't aware women didn't have that right...
Sure why not? I don't think there is anything wrong with a woman courtin a man. I was always under the impression that men always women courted each other.
I'm a girl and I've never seen a problem with that. Like, why bothering to wait, if you like the guy? Sadly, in Russia plenty of people still follow these sterotypes of relationship between women and men.
Is that where you're from?
My daddy told me women have no rights.
Russia has some major problems on the social stage from what I've seen.
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Never been on a date before but I'd probably do it just to be nice, especially if it was my suggestion.
You do have to right, go do it. The only risk is rejection and men take that risk too.
Guys, I think that after about 50 comments the OP knows that women can ask men out.
Since when do women not have the right to court?
Is that like taboo or something?
In any case I didn't know that was a thing, I've never asked a woman out in my entire life but I've had a girlfriend and I've rejected more women that I can remember, I thought that was normal, like as long as you are conventionally attractive you get courted not necessarily by the opposite sex.