Focused on (love) idea of love as relevant as emotion, feeling?
When you "fall" in love, how relevant is the subjective, objective reality of ideas behind your love?
Are the feelings more relevant, less subjective, objective, more validated and in a pure form? Ideas always have the probability to be viewed as subjectivity.
Into focus, narrowed on love, are the ideas of love, concept of love, as relevant, as the emotions?
Does referring back to the concept of love taint the true relevance of the experience as you live through it? Are the emotions of love more pure, less subjective, objective than the ideas?
Maybe color theory, such things, were invented because they do provoke a more pure and less subjective, objective form of our selves.
Less subjective, less objective, if that makes sense...
Are the feelings more relevant, less subjective, objective, more validated and in a pure form? Ideas always have the probability to be viewed as subjectivity.
Into focus, narrowed on love, are the ideas of love, concept of love, as relevant, as the emotions?
Does referring back to the concept of love taint the true relevance of the experience as you live through it? Are the emotions of love more pure, less subjective, objective than the ideas?
Maybe color theory, such things, were invented because they do provoke a more pure and less subjective, objective form of our selves.
Less subjective, less objective, if that makes sense...
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If you want to look at the "objective" reality of it, it's just the mental projection of our biological imperative to mate with healthy people to produce diverse and successful offspring. How unromantic.
I really feel like your existential/psychological musings would work better as one big thread rather than a new thread every time. Maybe they all seem very distinct to you, but to me they all seem to cover very similar ground.
I have to agree on this. Because of your threads reflects questions that you come up with after getting another one of your question answered, it'll also help your repliers to back their answers up with their previous posts without explaining everything that they previously did.
Thanks for being considerate of me though, it's appreciated. I'll lay off this stuff for a while.
Now, there is the chemistry, a.k.a. biological urge to reproduce, a.k.a. crush, a.k.a. 'a sparkle which was there but at some point just disappeared' (call however you want), now, that is not love, because love is a feeling which is earned, and it stays forever UNLESS it's broken.
Now, there was this family, they had a dog. The moved from the ground house to an apartment, decided dog didn't fit there, so they left it outside of the house and, well, left the house. You know what the dog did? Followed them. To their apartment. What they did? Closed the door in front of the dog. Didn't let it in. Well, it was a 'she', so, didn't let her in. So, she remained on the streets. Someone picked her up. Some time later, the previous masters, accidentally, meet their old dog with the new master, but when they wanted to come closer to her, she barked at them like they were mortal enemies her whole life. The dog's love towards those people was broken. The bond of mutual trust, respect, interdependency, it disappeared.
This bond is not unique to humans only (as you could tell from my post), but humans, when it doesn't concern blood relatives, do call it 'friendship' very often, because, well... it's kind of the same thing. Real friendship and real love, that is.
That's my opinion on this matter.
Here's a nother reply I got
Like depression. It's only lack of happiness. I'm looking at you, pessimist.
Pessimist never gets disappointed.
Frankly, my first true opinion on love is getting into another relationship (me and my ex only went about 3 weeks, and met once a week).
What does marriage have to do with it if you study love as a part of human behavior? Marriage is a deal, a contract, signatures on a sheet of paper and is exclusive to humans which makes it kind of unnatural.
I don't like love, but at the same time I don't want to be without it.
There is such a thing as too much love, and it can kill you , Queen reference barely intended. I think some one can have too much love to give, as well as receive to much.
I may say stuff like this because I'm dead sick of being single, but I know that I thought I was in love once, it started to fall apart, then I found out she was cheating on me. Then I was an idiot and decided I wanted to be with her again, Problem? She no longer lives anywhere near me.
Remember at one point durring the summer that I said I hated myself? Yeah, that was because of her.
I don't like love, and yet I need somebody to love.
okay dude
The argument that pessimists don't get disappointed and that optimists are disappointed all the time is just plain silly. I know many pessimists who constantly complain about how things always get worse for them and how they're disappointed in life and such.
There is such a stance as optimistic realism. It's the stance that I take. I'm very rarely truly disappointed because I understand that things aren't perfect. However, I have a very high outlook on life. I'd rather live my life appreciating what I have and enjoying it than trudging through it.
Thank you that was the joke! *clicks link* ohh
Then again, marriage is only brought up because love caused this committment.
I believe that committments in love are probably one of the most important parts of love, because there's no true point in short love, because you get over it sooner or later, as well as the fact that you don't really get anything out of it.
As far as I'm concerned, these are what I expect from a girl (most expected to least).
1. Nice
2. Smart
3. Attractive
The world may judge intelligence by functionality simply because it's easier to validate.
History may provide examples, that show, a curve in functionality in an individual that has great results around the bend.
This is meant to reflect a IQ level rather than intelligence alone.
What I meant was a "intellectual impairment' ( I find these words offensive but they might work) in function ability to be able to do simple tasks, functions. Such as working a pricing gun, or tying one's own shoes...over all I meant function ability as a human being, struggling socially. People who have psychological, biological (mental) disabilities could relate possibly.
When I fall in love, it is the feeling I have from the guy importent. How I experience him.:)
I don't think it's a option for some people. My intellectual functional-ability within the social surface of reality is greatly impaired. So I perceive it to be ,and my subjective reality has been strongly molded. My image of self has been painted into self portrait.
I don't "experience her". I wish it were that simple for me. Listen to my heart, stomach? I hear what they say, but I give into my stomach far more often.