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So you can point your fingers and say THAT'S THE BAD GUY!

doodo!doodo!
edited March 2011 in General Chat
I'm referring to the woman's ability or skill set to tell the bad guy.

What signals, commonly used gestures, behaviors generally pave example for the livelihood that a guy is " a bad guy"?

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  • coolsomecoolsome
    edited March 2011
    Why only a womans abilty?
  • doodo!doodo!
    edited March 2011
    coolsome wrote: »
    Why only a womans abilty?

    Guys are allowed to, I don't care. That's not essentially the main idea here. But I think bringing up men versus women and what they want and see out of guys might lead to a whole other topic of its own.
  • Secret FawfulSecret Fawful
    edited March 2011
    She sleeps with him. If he stops talking to her once they've slept together, he's a bad guy.
  • FalancaFalanca
    edited March 2011
    Ask this to yourself. If someone, woman or man, can label people bad or good so easily, doesn't that make this person BAD for you?
  • coolsomecoolsome
    edited March 2011
    If he leaves a £10 note on the dressing table after hes a bad guy.
  • doodo!doodo!
    edited March 2011
    Falanca wrote: »
    Ask this to yourself. If someone, woman or man, can label people bad or good so easily, doesn't that make this person BAD for you?

    To me, yes, you're right. I think you understand me. I have a hard time accepting this in other people.
  • Secret FawfulSecret Fawful
    edited March 2011
    Oh, and if she catches him sleeping with her sister, that's probably also a good sign. However, if he's slept with 40 women before and says that she is special and stopped doing so after meeting her, he's not a bad guy to them.
  • coolsomecoolsome
    edited March 2011
    If he calls her Fred in bed thats a gd sign.
  • FalancaFalanca
    edited March 2011
    doodo! wrote: »
    To me, yes, you're right. I think you understand me. I have a hard time accepting this in other people.

    There isn't much of a difference in the method, really. Hatred is essential. We all have different aspects determining quality. Like, some stupid whore can label you bad because you don't have much muscles or something. You can label her bad because well, she has STDs. The only weakness of your motives is your reactions to be labeled. It's natural, there are so many different people and they all have distinct likes. Some people will hate you and you will hate some people and that makes whom you love more valuable to you.

    And also, in the end only a little number of women will have great positive effect on your life (your mother, wife, relatives, maybe future kids), and hundreds of thousands of them out there; not all of them are that dumb. I suppose you should just seek for that special one (who, by meaning, will be more intelligent than most women you've encountered) and do not take it that harshly whenever you're rejected. It's only natural. So, why people label others? Well, why do YOU label others? Same thing in the end. And you know what, it's GOOD that they reject you and label you bad. So that you can be far away from their bullshit lifestyles and ways of thinking.
  • doodo!doodo!
    edited March 2011
    Falanca wrote: »

    I guess you're right. Still some time it's easy to move forwards when you dumb down and play the part to see where it goes.But, you're right, if I stick to my own personal perspectives of things I have to continue on in the same directions I'm already going in though.

    But you're right, I owe it to myself to keep trying.

    BUT here is a good response from elsewhere
    It actually has a lot to do with biology and survival.
    You can more or less say that girls are subconsciously looking for a boyfriend who shows good potential as a father, and to be a good father you obviously need to be self-confident so you can bring up your children without giving in to them all the time; if you show lack of self-confidence then you show weakness, which might also mean you can't state your opinions about things.
    This also explains why "nice guys" are considered unattractive, because they care a little too much for the girl and do not love themselves.
    Sure, the so-called "bad boys" usually have those strict qualities and are independent, but their flaw is that they are jackasses instead, which girls typically grow tired of after the "dominant alpha-mane" part stops becoming interesting

    I think the father aspect is also the reason why a lot of girls think it's extremely sexy with guys who are loved by children.
  • FalancaFalanca
    edited March 2011
    That is a great quote.
  • RibsRibs
    edited March 2011
    In terms of in film, most Procedural Crime shows are incredibly obvious. It's either the big actor that was in the episode but seems to have next to no lines as they're saving it for an emotional testimony, or the person the cops interview around the 16 minute mark. This formula is far from obscure, and is something I've picked up and in turn made most crime shows useless.
  • Giant TopeGiant Tope
    edited March 2011
    doodo! wrote: »
    I'm referring to the woman's ability or skill set to tell the bad guy.

    What signals, commonly used gestures, behaviors generally pave example for the livelihood that a guy is " a bad guy"?

    what
  • doodo!doodo!
    edited March 2011
    Not generalizations, lol I'm asking people individually.
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