Nah thats just wrong, physically harming your child wont teach them a lesson, the way they will learn the lesson is to sit down with them and explain why what they did was wrong.
I'm so sorry to hear that. Your dad ought to apologize for something like that. Judging by the way you act on the forum, I can't think of any reason in any twisted point of view to abuse you that way. I hope your sister never has to go through that either.
My dad used to hit me with a belt buckle. I'm 13 and sometimes he still threatens me with it. My sister is almost 3 and she's never been thr… moreeatened with it. I suppose I really am a test child, because everything they tried on me fucked me up and made me depressed. I think my parents just want a different little girl that they can play dolls with and not have to hit with a belt buckle because she wouldn't eat her vegetables.
I will never lay a hand on a child. Ever. No matter what my future child(ren) do(es), I will never lay a hand on them.
I'm in the process of being diagnosed with either a Thyroid disorder or a mental disorder, and one of those things makes me act a little... Odd. I have a very hard time controlling my behavior in RL, because my moods shift so quickly. My dad says he'll hit me with it if I "act like a bitch" or "act bratty", and sometimes my own behavior, even if it's how I usually act, causes him to get aggravated. It's because I'm not like other kids. I stay in my room 14 hours a day, I actively avoid physical contact, and I have a very strong phobia of my school. Whenever I complain about any of that, my dad gets mad. He would qualify for emotionally abusive, or maybe even physically abusive at one point, but the fact that he's only like that 30% of the time gets in the way.
I'm so sorry to hear that. Your dad ought to apologize for something like that. Judging by the way you act on the forum, I can't think of an… morey reason in any twisted point of view to abuse you that way. I hope your sister never has to go through that either.
I know exactly how you feel. I used to dread going to school myself, since I was always mocked because people thought I was gay. I'd say I was more angry than distressed. I still feel bad about the things I said to people. But I want you to know that I don't see you as odd at all. For your age, I think you're extremely smart and mature, and I hope things get better for you. Believe me, I know how it feels.
I'm in the process of being diagnosed with either a Thyroid disorder or a mental disorder, and one of those things makes me act a little... … moreOdd. I have a very hard time controlling my behavior in RL, because my moods shift so quickly. My dad says he'll hit me with it if I "act like a bitch" or "act bratty", and sometimes my own behavior, even if it's how I usually act, causes him to get aggravated. It's because I'm not like other kids. I stay in my room 14 hours a day, I actively avoid physical contact, and I have a very strong phobia of my school. Whenever I complain about any of that, my dad gets mad. He would qualify for emotionally abusive, or maybe even physically abusive at one point, but the fact that he's only like that 30% of the time gets in the way.
He apologizes sometimes. But not every time.
I know exactly how you feel. I used to dread going to school myself, since I was always mocked because people thought I was gay. I'd say I w… moreas more angry than distressed. I still feel bad about the things I said to people. But I want you to know that I don't see you as odd at all. For your age, I think you're extremely smart and mature, and I hope things get better for you. Believe me, I know how it feels.
Gay rights for the win over here! We don't have to put up with that bloody Westboro hate group that says every Australian is going to hell. If you don't know about them, don't look them up. What they do is sickening.
Gay rights for the win over here! We don't have to put up with that bloody Westboro hate group that says every Australian is going to hell. If you don't know about them, don't look them up. What they do is sickening.
He mentioned being bullied because people suspected that he was gay. I told him that if someone guess that I was Lesbian, they'd be half right, as I'm Bi. I mentioned that no one should be bullied because of that and he basically said, "Gay rights for the win."
Not saying that a kid needs to be spanked for every little thing.
Sometimes a good talkin'-to is all that's required.
But when a kid is hellbent on not listening to their parents, and acting like a spoiled brat, then a spanking would be very appropriate.
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Nah thats just wrong, physically harming your child wont teach them a lesson, the way they will learn the lesson is to sit down with them and explain why what they did was wrong.
I'm so sorry to hear that. Your dad ought to apologize for something like that. Judging by the way you act on the forum, I can't think of any reason in any twisted point of view to abuse you that way. I hope your sister never has to go through that either.
I'm in the process of being diagnosed with either a Thyroid disorder or a mental disorder, and one of those things makes me act a little... Odd. I have a very hard time controlling my behavior in RL, because my moods shift so quickly. My dad says he'll hit me with it if I "act like a bitch" or "act bratty", and sometimes my own behavior, even if it's how I usually act, causes him to get aggravated. It's because I'm not like other kids. I stay in my room 14 hours a day, I actively avoid physical contact, and I have a very strong phobia of my school. Whenever I complain about any of that, my dad gets mad. He would qualify for emotionally abusive, or maybe even physically abusive at one point, but the fact that he's only like that 30% of the time gets in the way.
He apologizes sometimes. But not every time.
I know exactly how you feel. I used to dread going to school myself, since I was always mocked because people thought I was gay. I'd say I was more angry than distressed. I still feel bad about the things I said to people. But I want you to know that I don't see you as odd at all. For your age, I think you're extremely smart and mature, and I hope things get better for you. Believe me, I know how it feels.
Thank you.
I suppose people would be half right if they guessed that I was Lesbian (as I'm Bi) but there's still no reason be mean because of that.
Gay rights for the win over here! We don't have to put up with that bloody Westboro hate group that says every Australian is going to hell. If you don't know about them, don't look them up. What they do is sickening.
This is a discussion on a parenting technique.
How the hell did Gay rights enter into it?
He mentioned being bullied because people suspected that he was gay. I told him that if someone guess that I was Lesbian, they'd be half right, as I'm Bi. I mentioned that no one should be bullied because of that and he basically said, "Gay rights for the win."
That's how.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iEIApUNVBKg
Not saying that a kid needs to be spanked for every little thing.
Sometimes a good talkin'-to is all that's required.
But when a kid is hellbent on not listening to their parents, and acting like a spoiled brat, then a spanking would be very appropriate.