I am simply saying that avoiding premarital sex will filter out the ones who are after you only for sex. It's hard to pin point who is or isn't out for your genitals, so simply denying them sex until commitment will bore the ones chasing you for your body and keep the ones chasing you for your personality. A loving relationship comes from the one who loves you for who you are. A loving relationship does not come from physical intimacy.
I dunno,, I apologised and explained that I was under a lot of stress I was also running on an average of two hours of sleep a night because of work. I didn't get a reply though.
I dunno,, I apologised and explained that I was under a lot of stress I was also running on an average of two hours of sleep a night because of work. I didn't get a reply though.
I'm shy as fuck, lol. My questionable mentality for this situation is "if she's not interested enough to talk to me first, then she's not worth it". Usually when I talk to them first, they show zero interest. :/
Heh, I used to be shy, but one day I just said fuck it and started talking to people. Just be confident but not cocky. Nah man, usually the girl expects the guy to talk to them first, lol. Well just don't drag the convo out too long, Just talk to them a bit, get to know them a little and get the number, once you have that you can go on from there. Since you're shy txting should be easier. If it looks like she's not interested or she's being stuck up just move on to the next one, she's not worth it, bro.
I'm shy as fuck, lol. My questionable mentality for this situation is "if she's not interested enough to talk to me first, then she's not worth it". Usually when I talk to them first, they show zero interest. :/
Heh, I used to be shy, but one day I just said fuck it and started talking to people. Just be confident but not cocky. Nah man, usually the … moregirl expects the guy to talk to them first, lol. Well just don't drag the convo out too long, Just talk to them a bit, get to know them a little and get the number, once you have that you can go on from there. Since you're shy txting should be easier. If it looks like she's not interested or she's being stuck up just move on to the next one, she's not worth it, bro.
Haha, "one day I just said fuck it"! If only it was that easy, lol. I have a very low confidence level...very low. Which is why I'm hesitant into talking to anyone at this point in my life...it's even starting to spread into my 'internet life'. But if I see a good enough opportunity, I may take it.
Heh, I used to be shy, but one day I just said fuck it and started talking to people. Just be confident but not cocky. Nah man, usually the … moregirl expects the guy to talk to them first, lol. Well just don't drag the convo out too long, Just talk to them a bit, get to know them a little and get the number, once you have that you can go on from there. Since you're shy txting should be easier. If it looks like she's not interested or she's being stuck up just move on to the next one, she's not worth it, bro.
Yeah, especially if the girl is shy. I used to hate it when a girl was shy because I would be doing all the talking, but now I've found that to be cute in a girl, they blush and act nervous, haha. :p
It is easy, man. Trust me I used to be shy as hell, anything is possible. Just try not to have that mentality of "oh she probably doesn't like me" or "oh maybe she's not worth it" you have to at least try or you'll never know.
Haha, "one day I just said fuck it"! If only it was that easy, lol. I have a very low confidence level...very low. Which is why I'm hesitant… more into talking to anyone at this point in my life...it's even starting to spread into my 'internet life'. But if I see a good enough opportunity, I may take it.
Yeah, especially if the girl is shy. I used to hate it when a girl was shy because I would be doing all the talking, but now I've found that to be cute in a girl, they blush and act nervous, haha. :p
It is easy, man. Trust me I used to be shy as hell, anything is possible. Just try not to have that mentality of "oh she probably doesn't like me" or "oh maybe she's not worth it" you have to at least try or you'll never know.
Yeah, man. Just talk to people to get some practice. It just takes some time. Being shy holds you back from so many thaaaaangs you want to do. Another thing is usually the girl won't let the guy know she likes him because she might be afraid of rejection. So she actually may like you when you think she doesn't. Happened to me a couple times when I was shy, lol.
Too bad I'm 20 now. I let my whole high school career go by being a shy person...I did have one girlfriend, though. That probably happened to me countless times, shiiieet ^-^*'
Yeah, man. Just talk to people to get some practice. It just takes some time. Being shy holds you back from so many thaaaaangs you want to d… moreo. Another thing is usually the girl won't let the guy know she likes him because she might be afraid of rejection. So she actually may like you when you think she doesn't. Happened to me a couple times when I was shy, lol.
Lol, it's never too late, bro! Yeah they'll usually give you signs that they like you, but you have to be smart enough to notice them. One thing about us guys though, we're usually to dumb to notice, lol.
Too bad I'm 20 now. I let my whole high school career go by being a shy person...I did have one girlfriend, though. That probably happened to me countless times, shiiieet ^-^*'
Lol, it's never too late, bro! Yeah they'll usually give you signs that they like you, but you have to be smart enough to notice them. One thing about us guys though, we're usually to dumb to notice, lol.
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I'm not judging anyone at all.
I am simply saying that avoiding premarital sex will filter out the ones who are after you only for sex. It's hard to pin point who is or isn't out for your genitals, so simply denying them sex until commitment will bore the ones chasing you for your body and keep the ones chasing you for your personality. A loving relationship comes from the one who loves you for who you are. A loving relationship does not come from physical intimacy.
I dunno,, I apologised and explained that I was under a lot of stress I was also running on an average of two hours of sleep a night because of work. I didn't get a reply though.
Well he was away for a few days he just came back today maybe he hasn't seen it
Straight male. Serious relationships scare the crap out of me.
...not to sound creepy, but dude, are they blind?
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