When Will I Find Love?
Honestly, I've waited and waited like everyone in my life has told me. Yet, everytime I search for someone, I feel like no one would ever want me. I start to wonder if I'll ever fond someone with as much love to give as I do. Any advice when it comes to this?
No a cry for help, I just need a boost of confidence.
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...jokes aside, there is a Vent/Help thread where people can talk about things like this, if you would like for me to merge the two threads so your discussion potentially gets a little more attention from that thread's regulars.
https://telltale.com/community/discussion/92470/the-vent-thread
As an on topic comment, part of it just involves putting yourself out there and inviting yourself into positions of potential rejection. As the old cliche saying goes, you miss all the shots you don't take. If you notice a common pattern of getting rejected, try to do some honest self evaluation or see if you can find a friend or trusted person to call you out on your BS and give you an honest third person point of view.
Haha, thanks man!!!
Smart XD
That's actually very helpful. I appreciate your sentiment
Well, one thing to note is that many people are in the same position as you, ready to give love someone but unsure if anyone wants to give love to them, from what I've heard, read and seen in regards to love, it is a slow process and even when you find someone it can still take time. There are hundreds of ways you can meet people and make friends, and those are ways you can eventually find a significant other! In my opinion, finding a friend who's good at loving their friends could be a great significant other for someone like you who has lots of love to give to, but in the end it's all up to you and there's no shaming in trying dating apps and other stuff like that but another thing, in my opinion, waiting isn't always the best course of action, sometimes you have to take action and make the first move because relationships can still grow naturally that way.
I wish you the best of luck in finding a great significant other!
These are very helpful and thoughtful words. They are much appreciated.
I see from another thread that you're a gay male. Dare I suggest Grindr?
Everybody on there is looking for a quick hookup. I want something long lasting, you feel?
I feel ya all the way back in middle school I had a friend that was a girl and then I got friend zoned (and that actually happened a couple times with other girls) but for now I’ve been waiting for someone who will stay by me hopefully forever longest I’ve dated someone is like 2 months and let me tell ya two months does not equal true love. I know you said you have been waiting but what I’m doing is giving it time wait for someone who you can really connect to. I’m not really the best person for this but there are some nice dating sites on the internet not just for desperate people.
Well the way I see it, you should wait for love to find you, as opposed to searching and being let down. One day you'll meet someone and you'll develop a relationship from there seemingly by accident, in a situation like that, true love is far more likely to blossom.
I understand the situation you're in and yeah sometimes it feels hopeless, but I'm certain you'll stumble across someone that has just as much love to give to you, as you would for them. Stay positive!
It's easy. Women want you to be direct. Franku Senpai helped me, he'll help you.
Maybe when you stop being so focused on finding love. It just happens, no point in searching.
You're a white crayon. You just need to find someone who prefers black paper.
That's it. That's all I got. Romance isn't really my forte.
Just as soon as you like yourself.
Love is all a figment of your perceptive interests. There's people that literally marry their pet and people that switch genders and all that shit.
Just find someone who you could see yourself banging and is cool and not a cunthead and you're gravy.
"See yourself banging"
What
Just don't focus on finding love now. Just have fun in life then maybe love will choose you to be together with someone. If you have a few girl "friends" then maybe you can errr...hang out with them, friendly date, then you can take things to another level if you'd like..
Love isnt something to be hunted down, it just happens. Dont start a relationship with true love as a goal dont turn people down because they dont fit into your fantasy of a perfect person just give people a chance and have patience.
I blame hollywood and celebrities for people feeling like failures for not finding "the one"
See yourself banging= Someone you can imagine having sex with
Gravey= good
I had a feeling that would be the case, but thought I'd throw it out there.
You're still young, though. Just be you, don't stay home alone, and you'll be surprised what happens.
well i'll never find love due to the person i am and i'm completely content with that. not even a bad thing really. but i assume you don't want to give up, so the advice i'll give is just live your life and don't actively look for love. eventually you'll come across somebody, it'll happen naturally, just don't give up on yourself. even on the rare chance love comes my way i won't accept it, but when it does for you, make sure it's legit love and not some fake shit and go get em tiger.
So what I have gathered is that I need to just let I happen and not rush it.
I can live with that.
I'm better on my own anyways, that's just how it is. And I'm going to be content with that until something does stumble my way.
good to hear man. until then at least you've got your right hand (THAT WAS A JOKE PLEASE DON'T BE OFFEND)
Haha, I mean, you're not wrong XD
I laughed so hard at that. more than I should have but i love you for it.
Tried your way, Chris Hansen came around the corner and asked me to have a seat right over there, please.
I hate to ask man but do you maintain yourself and keep decent style. I am going to be straightforward with you a girl wants to have some attraction to you. Personality is the biggest part but if they can't stand to look at you, maybe consider hitting the gym or get new clothes. Learn one liner jokes idk about you but I love them. Let's also say you like a girl. Pay attention to the small things(Favorite color, Always know when she got a haircut and compliment, etc). First and foremost get out there man the ladies are not goong to waltz up to your door.
make a tinder lol
Just meet up with people as much as you can. You cant just wait someone else who wants you. You have to show yourself and prove that you worth it. Improve yourself and boost your social abilities. Pay attention to your physical appearance. Be yourself as good as possible. Dont try to be someone else. Rest should come itself.
As of late, I've completely revamped my whole aesthetic. I've worked on toning body for a few years now, and I'm feeling more and more comfortable in my own skin. I've been feeling myself, so to say. It's not so much that I've not tried, I just feel like I know that the people I like, won't like me back. It's kind of a self-loathing thing I gotta work on. I'm always praised for my personality and good looks, but I just don't love myself yet. I gotta work on that.
Always invest in yourself. The other things come with it. How do you know you like someone who won't like you? Don't be afraid of rejection or you'll never succeed.