Crying

edited January 2010 in General Chat
It's a cold night, probably the night before Christmas. Somewhere, out there, there's a girl, a poor girl, selling matchsticks, to earn enough money to support her own home. She was forced to do this by her father, why I don't know, but she has to.

But she's cold, and nobody wants to buy her matchsticks. She decides to light one up, and right before her eyes, she sees a feast meal. She can even smell it. But just as she's about to reach out, it disappears. She wants more, and lights up another matchstick. She then sees a Christmas tree, full of presents, but again it disappears right when she's about to reach it. She then continues to light up the matches, until she lights up the last one.

There she sees the image of her deceased grandmother, who she loved the most. She then reaches out, and her grandmother too reaches out. Finally she gets lifted off by her grandmother.

Everybody knows how the story ends, the girl dies, but with a smile on her face. It's one of the saddest stories by Hans Christian Andersen ever, and it always makes me cry a little. Even when I heard it countless times before. I think The Little Matchgirl is one of his most beautiful stories ever, and probably fitting for his own life, a tragic life. Perhaps that's why most of his stories are tragic.

So my question to you guys, what makes you cry? What stories, for example, or what songs?
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  • edited December 2009
    Honestly, I'm not ashamed to admit it, but the Piano Rendition of the Jurassic Park theme makes me cry, I think it has to be one of the most beautiful pieces written by John Willams, it makes me wonder and embrace the childhood I had as a kid, and What will never be again.
  • edited December 2009
    Well, recently I was listening to the audiobook version of Agatha Christie's The Unexpected Guest. It was originally a play, but turned into a novel later, and the audiobook is read by Hugh Fraser, who plays Captain Hastings in the TV series. He's a great actor and he has a very pleasant voice to listen to.

    Anyway, Christie plays with you all through the story, right up to the end. The ending is so sad that I did get a bit teary-eyed...
  • edited December 2009
    An American Tail. An American Tail 2. Benji. The Lion King. The Princess and the Frog. Sabrina. Anything sad gets to me.

    And sometimes I find myself crying while watching the Sergio Leone westerns, because they're so fricking epic beyond belief. I mean I just can NOT believe such amazing movies exist. Someday I'm afraid I'll wake up and find that I dreamed them.
  • puzzleboxpuzzlebox Telltale Alumni
    edited December 2009
    Anything sad gets to me.

    Likewise. I'm generally a very happy person, laugh and smile a lot, and am not given to brooding or moping. However, I do cry quite readily at sad stories - especially things related to parting, death and loss.

    Rather appropriately for the season, top of my "cry list" right now is White Wine in the Sun (the Christmas song) by Tim Minchin.

    This singer is a fellow Aussie living in London. He normally does clever offbeat comedy music, and this is one of his rare (mostly) serious pieces. It perfectly captures the conflicting emotions involved in living away from the people who love you best. The parts where he sings about family, and particularly the last verse, are pretty much guaranteed to have me crying openly.
  • edited December 2009
    Oh yeah, there's always music of course. The carnival is over makes me feel nostalgic for something I don't know, not necessarily making me cry though. Same thing with Frosty the Snowman as interpreted by Cocteau Twins.

    Green Fields of France is definitely a cry-worthy song though.
  • edited December 2009
    Forgiven by Within Temptation always gets to me, as do Coma White, The Last Day On Earth, and a few others by Marilyn Manson.

    As for movies, City of Angels and Chasing Amy tend to at least get me choked up, if not full-blown sad. (Yes, I'm that guy who openly sheds a tear during chick flicks :p)
  • edited December 2009
    I don't cry at often, even in those horrid tearjerker movies.
    But I'll find my self crying at the most trivial things.

    Two notable examples; When I was younger, I thought for a good long hour about death.
    And when I beat Paper Mario 2. Why did I cry? Because I had left that game on hold for several years. It was beuatiful to see the ending without resorting to Youtube.
  • edited December 2009
    The lion king gets to me. And The fox and the hound. And Moulin Rouge, and even the last harry potter book. Yeah, i'm a cry baby...:(
  • edited December 2009
    Friar wrote: »
    The lion king gets to me. And The fox and the hound. And Moulin Rouge, and even the last harry potter book. Yeah, i'm a cry baby...:(

    Nothing wrong with crying my friend, it's even healthier to cry than be angry.
  • edited December 2009
    Also, this made me cry a little:

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T3FsJGCvzfI

    Why?

    A little back story here. Nikki, now the winner of the fourth edition of Dutch Idols, told in the leader why she picked this musical song. I'm not really sure, but I believe this song was the favorite song of an old music teacher of Nikki, who basically taught her a lot of things about at singing, or at least music, and she dedicated it to her teacher. The kicker? This teacher was deceased for some time at that point.

    It was really moving to see her cry at the end of the song.

    Also, not really all that tear jerkery, but the song Part Of Your World from the Little Mermaid always almost gives me a tear. Likewise with So Close by Jon McLaughlin for the movie Enchanted and Eyes On Me for the game Final Fantasy VIII as performed by Faye Wong.

    Also, when I saw The Little Matchgirl in the Efteling (Dutch theme park), it really brought tears in my eyes, and not in the almost sense.
  • edited December 2009
    Ah! The flashback scene in Ratatouille.

    And the Lord of the Rings movies had several misty-eyed moments... Arwen crying, Pippin singing for Denethor, Annie Lennox singing Into the West... but mostly, Aragorn's line "My friends... you bow to no one." Gets me every time.
  • edited December 2009
    when the Shamrock shake disappears off McDonald's menu at the end of march every year I get a little misty.
  • edited December 2009
    Irishmile wrote: »
    when the Shamrock shake disappears off McDonald's menu at the end of march every year I get a little misty.

    Thats not even on the menu at any time of the year here in the UK.
  • edited December 2009
    I cryed at the end of doctor who series 4 when
    Donna lost her memorys of the Doctor
  • edited December 2009
    "Walking in the Air" from The Snowman

    Most beautiful song... gives me chills every time.
  • puzzleboxpuzzlebox Telltale Alumni
    edited December 2009
    I cryed at the end of doctor who series 4 when
    Donna lost her memorys of the Doctor

    Can't remember if I cried for Donna, but I definitely did when
    Rose got left behind in a parallel world and the Doctor managed to come back for a last goodbye.
  • edited December 2009
    I did 2 but found
    donnas exit
    sadder
  • edited December 2009
    Hinawa's funeral in Mother 3.
  • edited December 2009
    Kokoro by Rin Kagamine and Kokoro Kiseki by Len Kagamine. If you wanna look 'em up on youtube, make sure you look for the english subs.
  • edited December 2009
    I get way too emotionally attached to movies and TV, and get misty-eyed a LOT.

    But the two TV episodes that ALWAYS make me cry? Quantum Leap: "MIA", and Futurama: "Jurassic Bark".
  • edited December 2009
    doggans wrote: »
    Futurama: "Jurassic Bark".

    I forgot about that... no matter how many times I see that episode, the end montage brings tears to my eyes every single time.
  • edited December 2009
    Irishmile wrote: »
    when the Shamrock shake disappears off McDonald's menu at the end of march every year I get a little misty.

    We don't even get it at all! Of course if I ever did visit the the States i'd be sure to order it loudly in a brash accent whilst wearing my Armagh GAA shirt, you get very patriotic when you're away from home I find :p
  • edited December 2009
    The end of 'The Idiot' by Dostoevsky made me cry :(
    And also in Ugly Betty when
    Daniel's fiancee
    died

    Oh and Harry Potter 7. I think that may have been from shock at the final chapter though..
  • edited December 2009
    GaryCXJk wrote: »
    It's a cold night, probably the night before Christmas. Somewhere, out there, there's a girl, a poor girl, selling matchsticks, to earn enough money to support her own home. She was forced to do this by her father, why I don't know, but she has to.

    But she's cold, and nobody wants to buy her matchsticks. She decides to light one up, and right before her eyes, she sees a feast meal. She can even smell it. But just as she's about to reach out, it disappears. She wants more, and lights up another matchstick. She then sees a Christmas tree, full of presents, but again it disappears right when she's about to reach it. She then continues to light up the matches, until she lights up the last one.

    There she sees the image of her deceased grandmother, who she loved the most. She then reaches out, and her grandmother too reaches out. Finally she gets lifted off by her grandmother.

    Everybody knows how the story ends, the girl dies, but with a smile on her face. It's one of the saddest stories by Hans Christian Andersen ever, and it always makes me cry a little. Even when I heard it countless times before. I think The Little Matchgirl is one of his most beautiful stories ever, and probably fitting for his own life, a tragic life. Perhaps that's why most of his stories are tragic.

    A little girl died? Wow. That's TOTALLY something I haven't heard before.
  • edited January 2010
    You've never heard of the Little Matchgirl, one of the most famous works of Hans Christian Andersen, also one of the more famously told fairy tales ever? And if you haven't, you couldn't even get through reading the topic post that it was a fairy tale?
  • edited January 2010
    Not only the story, you should see the short animation by Disney. It makes me cry EVERY TIME. It's like "oh, it's Disney, so they're totally going to change the story to make it happy, right?" NOPE. Whenever I try to show it to a friend I'm like "ok Pecan, don't cry this time" but it ALWAYS HAPPENS. You guys should totally see it, it might be on Youtube but I'm not sure because of copyrights, but if you own The Little Mermaid Special Edition DVD it's on the second disc.

    I was also bawling like a little girl all throughout the movie "Up."

    And Bambi's "Mooooooooother" scene always gets me.

    Other than that, I don't cry very often. I often mostly just get teary-eyed or depressed without any tears, so I'll have to really think about it.
  • edited January 2010
    GaryCXJk wrote: »
    You've never heard of the Little Matchgirl, one of the most famous works of Hans Christian Andersen, also one of the more famously told fairy tales ever? And if you haven't, you couldn't even get through reading the topic post that it was a fairy tale?
    I haven't heard the story in years. Ah, hoe i miss my childhood...

    as a side note, i thought Hans christian anderson was the actor who played Anakin Skywalker in episodes 2/3. Shows how much i know ¬_¬.
  • edited January 2010
    GaryCXJk wrote: »
    You've never heard of the Little Matchgirl, one of the most famous works of Hans Christian Andersen, also one of the more famously told fairy tales ever? And if you haven't, you couldn't even get through reading the topic post that it was a fairy tale?

    I read it. There's just too many stories where little girls die. It's made me... immune to it.
  • edited January 2010
    Dude, it's not the fact that the girl dies, it's the execution of it. Where most other stories tell a straight to the point version, this story packs it as a fairy tale.

    And it's one of the first.

    Dating back from 1845.

    Seriously, the last thing we need is sarcasm to the point of it almost being cynicism, especially not in a thread where people are willing to open themselves up. Admitting you cry about trivial things, especially as a guy and / or an adult, isn't something you do easily.
  • edited January 2010
    I'm a sucker for movies.

    Lion King, Land Before Time, I Am Sam, The Notebook...err...lots of embarassing things too -_- Like Titanic, ha.

    But I've been delving into alot of Visual Novels at the moment, and they just rip your heart out and squeeze the tears out of it.(Mostly those done by Key, gosh.)
  • edited January 2010
    I cryed watching dr who the End of time part 2 when
    the master blasted rassilon and dissapered and the tenth doctor relised he was still gona die and the scenes after
  • puzzleboxpuzzlebox Telltale Alumni
    edited January 2010
    I'm a sucker for movies.

    [ ... ] The Notebook [ ... ]

    Ahh The Notebook... best tearjerker ever. Not a good date movie! Or possibly an awesome date movie, depending on how much you want to console your sobbing date. :p
    I cryed watching dr who the End of time part 2 when
    the master blasted rassilon and dissapered and the tenth doctor relised he was still gona die and the scenes after

    I was in various stages of tears from the part where
    Wilf knocks 4 times, and the Doctor realises he hasn't cheated death
    right up until the regeneration... was watching with my flatmate (who has never seen any of the new series) and had to explain the story to him afterwards... and then started breaking up all over again!
  • edited January 2010
    GaryCXJk wrote: »
    Admitting you cry about trivial things, especially as a guy and / or an adult, isn't something you do easily.
    Hmm... well, actually, it's become a bit of a norm these days. We live in a culture that is focused on emotion, and if you don't show your emotions, you're almost not considered to be human. Unfortunately, this is sometimes taken to extremes, with public figures crying so much that it's not believable anymore. A little crying is good sometimes, but it has to be sincere. Nowadays, in these days of fake emotion, it isn't always. :(
  • edited January 2010
    Snicklin wrote: »
    I read it. There's just too many stories where little girls die. It's made me... immune to it.

    Watch this.
  • edited January 2010
    ^
    NO

    NO NO NO NO

    You're not going to get me again, this is a very good day, THANK YOU.
  • edited January 2010
    It's not half as sad without the music!
  • edited January 2010
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=etw3aSumBEU Argh, I just remembered this. (jesus christ every time I see those big eyes close I lose it)

    Pet stories like those always make me tear up. There was a similar one about a cat in some book. I think it was Chicken Soup for the Pet Owner(?)'s Soul or something like that. I can't remember the exact title, but geez, those were some sad stories. My teacher read some to us in class when I was younger and I was all "D':" right in class.
  • edited January 2010
    PecanBlue wrote: »
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=etw3aSumBEU Argh, I just remembered this. (jesus christ every time I see those big eyes close I lose it)
    .
    Now i'll never be able to play Dr. Mario without crying!
  • edited January 2010
    Johnny Cash: Hurt (especially with the video) Powerful song.

    But in general sad music always gets to me, I've got very suggestible emotions it seems. :p

    Oh, and sad films.

    And adverts.

    And games.

    And stories.

    Sure I've forgotten something somewhere.
  • edited January 2010
    All dogs go to heaven lol
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