How would you feel if your sister goes a wrong way?
Hi, maybe it's not a polite question to ask but I heard in some countries like USA and European countries they don't care much about their females
I mean it's a fu*king bad feel to see your sister have a boy friend (Not in purpose for marriage)
How would you feel if your sister find boyfriend but not in purpose for marriage?
I'm really really hate this kind of girls, really really hate
I mean it's a fu*king bad feel to see your sister have a boy friend (Not in purpose for marriage)
How would you feel if your sister find boyfriend but not in purpose for marriage?
I'm really really hate this kind of girls, really really hate
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I know quite well that in the US or in Europe, brothers care just as much about their sisters as they do in Iran. The difference might be what we think is good for those sisters.
(Unless the guy was an asshole, or abusive. Then I WOULD obviously care. Quite a bit I should imagine! XD)
For the record my sister never did such a shameful thing like that and I'm talking about your sisters no offence
The issue of whether two people in a relationship get married or not is utterly irrelevant at the start because you don't know if it's going to work out or not. If you go into a relationship specifically because you want to get married, then you're doing it for the wrong reason - you should be doing it because you like the other person and want to be with them.
The idea that people don't care about their families simply because they live in one particular country is... flawed, shall we say. It's not down to which country you live in, it's down to the upbringing you have. I'd have thought though that as a rule pretty much everyone cared about their family in one way or another.
For one thing you shouldn't rush into marriage with anyone you should take your time and date people so you know what type of person you want to be with.
Also theres another thing you can't control women here. If you try telling a girl here who to date she will let you have it then carry on dating him.
Is that so? then I love every woman in the world! because of something that every man knows So am I free to become friend with someone like your sister just because I love to be with her! and no matter what will happens next?
When a male and a female getting too close to each other then something bad goes to happen! I don't know about your country but in my country no one will marry with a girl that isn't virgin
Over here no one cares. At all. If a women's hymen is intact or not. At least the sensible people. There are some people that do but we generally laugh at them.
In England people generally don't look that far ahead when going into relationships...
I don't have a sister but I wouldn't care who she is with as long as she would be happy...
When people marry in our countries, the male usually knows with absolute certainty that the girl isn't a virgin any more. Regardless whether he was the originally responsible party or not.
You really don't care who was your wife before? isn't that really important for you to know your wife never had sex with a man before? WTF
I'm really feel sorry for you and your kinds you don't know anything about life
But to a lot of people it is when people date or marry a man! XD
I'd hope the man I marry has lots of sexual experiences before hand.:P
Exactly my point! XD
Knowing a person inside out, that's a goal which might be harder to achieve if said person actually HAD a life before. The western countries regard sex as just a part of life, an experience you make. More or less like eating good muffins or smelling the flowers. Same thing. Most of all, they have abandonned the idea that your virginity is something you 'give' like a precious possession. Relationships have nothing to do with possession any more, and they have nothing to do with 'being the first' in anything any more.
I understand that these are belief systems which are very difficult for you to accept, but I urge you to at least make a try without insulting anyone. We're on page 2 now, and I think we had a rather OK start for this kind of absolute cultural clash.
Oh god get over your self! We don't make topics saying how you live sucks! Hell everyone here is being polite and saying its a different of culture trying to respect you beliefs while you don't give a damn about reciprocating it!
I'm really really happy that I'm not living in your country. In my country we have a lot of problems but at least we still have morality. 90% of our girls are clean and humanity is upper everything
Well pop the fucking champagne!
So is people being forced into a marriage that they don't really value 'Morality' ?
Roll out the red Carpet!
Long story short - as long as our (possibly fictional) sister is happy, we don't really mind who she's dating, whether she's getting married to them or if she's a virgin.
Actually, we REALLY don't want to know about that last one. Like, ever.
That's generally how most civilized countries work. If your country has different values, then fine. But we don't patronise or insult you for it, so don't do the same to us.
Well, those vicious 10% will obviously have to find an unclean man first. I think their percentage might be a tad higher.
edit: Darth, NOOOOO!!
Thanks, beat me to it!