My best friend died today. ;(
What happened was he had some sudden respiratory failure which caused him to stop breathing and choke to death and I was at his house when this happened and I saw, I knew him since second grade and we were very close like brothers yet he dies in the first three weeks of eighth grade and I feel guilty because lots of my friends have died in the last 3 years about four I think, Jacob who died today was the fourth but I feel like that I can't keep any of my friends alive. Can somebody cheer me up? I'm feeling kind of down now.
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So sorry to hear that. I literally can not pretend to know how you feel. I can't image what having one friend die is like, let alone four. Has anyone ever asked what emotional strain you go through after having so many close friends die? I ask this because we forum members can only give you so much emotional support.
I know how you feel, my best friend died in April. We were racing our quads and we made contact. He got airlifted to hospital where he died, RIP man.
Just have to remember nothing you could have done and its not your fault.
I'm so sorry for your loss, especially one as painful as that. But it's best to remember it isn't your fault, blaming yourself will just make it hurt more and will stick with you for a long time causing depression, it's best to just realize that there really is nothing you could have done in that situation. So remember don't blame yourself for something that was out of your control. Feel better man ;( R.I.P.
That's so sad. I don't think anyone can "cheer you up." Just realize your friend is now at peace, and it's not your fault so many of your friends have passed at such a young age. Time will heal.
I'm really sorry to hear that. I won't pretend to nkwo how you feel, because I don't. But I think there is some kind of life after death, and I'm sure your friend is resting peacefully now.
Thanks guys, I appreciate it.
Sorry to hear that your friends die. I don't make friends because to me friends aren't real but again sorry for your losses.
Its the worst feeling in the world.. not that i lost a friend that way, but my grandma died suddenly while on vecation because of a hidden brain tumor.
Makes you re evaluate life tho doesnt it..
I'm sorry, prayers.
I'm really sorry to hear about that. Best wishes.
Well when i was in second grade my best friend at the time was named Matt, we did everything together until school was over. My parents took us on vacation to Florida, we come back and i find out my friend died in a freak fire. I remember coming to visit him in the hospital behind a window, because they wouldn't let me actually see him. He died a few weeks later to infection.
Shit happens, that is life.