When you're sad ...

edited January 2010 in General Chat
... do you actually eat ice cream out of the gallon? This is inspired by a thread in the Sam and Max forum, but do you actually do different "things" when you're depressed than when you're happy, or "okay" even? I'll talk less than normal, but I still do all the normal stuff I usually do. I eat, cook, play games, work, waste hours upon hours on the internet, but I don't suddenly pig out on sweets, pour my heart out to my local bartender or meet up for coffee with my best friend only to sigh and stare out the window until she finally says, "Lena, you seem different today; is anything wrong?"

Does anybody actually do that?
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  • edited January 2010
    When I'm sad... I do everything the same... What is sadness? Is not all life sorrow just as it is also joy? At any given moment everyone is sad about something, while glad about another. Yeah, I went somewhat philosophical on you. Deal with it! Punk.
  • edited January 2010
    Let me guess, you stubbed your toe buying an ice cream?
  • edited January 2010
    Lena_P wrote: »
    Let me guess, you stubbed your toe buying an ice cream?

    Somebody's too lazy to look for a deeper meaning. :P
  • edited January 2010
    TomPravetz wrote: »
    Somebody's too lazy ...


    Why do you think I always go for the "easy" joke? Also, I was so shocked that you answered logically to a thread that it kind of threw me off my game a little.
  • edited January 2010
    Lena_P wrote: »
    Why do you think I always go for the "easy" joke? Also, I was so shocked that you answered logically to a thread that it kind of threw me off my game a little.

    My job is not to be off topic; it is to surprise; to keep people on their toes.


    Wow! Two semicolons in one sentence!
  • edited January 2010
    I don't get sad, unless something bad's happened. It's odd, I'm just a cheery guy I guess. My spirit is more or less top all the time. Of course, I have bad days just like all others (after all, I'm only primate) - but I rarely get sad for no apparent reason. Life's to short to not enjoy it to the fullest.
  • edited January 2010
    I do nothing. Sometimes... literally nothing. I don't know if it helps or hinders the process of getting out of a bit of a slump, but it is what I end up typically doing.

    Or playing videogames.
  • edited January 2010
    Derwin wrote: »
    I do nothing. Sometimes... literally nothing.

    No. That's physically impossible. Think about it.
  • edited January 2010
    I'm diabetic, so... no. :|
  • edited January 2010
    I just surround myself in distracting stimuli. I'm bipolar, so my depression is often heavy and without reason. Since that's the case, the best thing I can do is lose myself in a game, a movie, a book, or music. I don't eat when I get that way, as it draws my attention back to myself.

    Now, if I have a non-chemical bout of depression, then that's a whole other can o' worms. I'll tune out everything and "live inside my mind", for the lack of a better term.
  • edited January 2010
    When i get sad i am more like lena. But i stop eating, and start to sleep more or just loose myself on the net. Currently im not sad btw. lol it's usually when im discouraged by other stuff.

    Shagge do you get manic episodes and how are u aware u are manic? (Im a grad student in psychology)
  • edited January 2010
    I don't ever have time to feel sad. There's too much to do. Maybe I should pay someone else to eat ice cream out of a half gallon for me.

    (Or I could suggest just playing Telltale Texas Hold-Em whenever you feel sad, but I guess that would only go so far when someone runs over your puppy.)
  • edited January 2010
    I don't eat anything when I'm sad because I lose my appetite, when I'm stressed I eat a lot though. :| Now if it's full-on depression (which is really rare for me) I kind of lose interest in doing anything at all.
  • edited January 2010
    Sadly, I'm allergic to milk. But I still eat ice-cream, I just have to make it first with non-dairy milk (bonus points for oats milk and almond milk, although rice milk is good too).

    I do tend to like comfort food when I'm sad, yes. That can be chips, or chocolate, or chocolate chips (see what I did?) or lots of stuff, really.
    But if I'm really, really sad then I can't eat at all, and instead I fetch a cat or my husband, depending which is most readily available, and hug them.
    I prefer the cats because they purr >.>

    I don't usually eat ice-cream (or, most of the time, sorbet) out of the box though. My parents were pretty freaky about how if some of your saliva gets in there and then is frozen, the next person who eats from the box (including if it's you again) could get an intoxication.
    Plus if you eat in a bowl, the bowl isn't cold, so it's more comfortable.
  • edited January 2010
    Everlast wrote: »
    Shagge do you get manic episodes and how are u aware u are manic? (Im a grad student in psychology)

    Aye. I become aware of my manic episodes when I either
    A) Become extremely energetic for no reason
    or
    B) Start saying a lot of non-sequiturs or find everyday things to be extremely funny (I've been known to crack up over a can of soup)

    Now, how much of that is from the bipolar, and how much is from the myriad list of other disorders I've been diagnosed with, I couldn't say. Especially since some of it seems more like a mild psychotic episode than mania. But then, as the old saying goes, you can't make a diagnosis with the organ that has the disease.
  • edited January 2010
    When I'm sad a watch or listen to something funny. this often involves rummaging through my dads comedy collection
  • edited January 2010
    ShaggE wrote: »
    Aye. I become aware of my manic episodes when I either
    A) Become extremely energetic for no reason
    or
    B) Start saying a lot of non-sequiturs or find everyday things to be extremely funny (I've been known to crack up over a can of soup)

    Now, how much of that is from the bipolar, and how much is from the myriad list of other disorders I've been diagnosed with, I couldn't say. Especially since some of it seems more like a mild psychotic episode than mania. But then, as the old saying goes, you can't make a diagnosis with the organ that has the disease.

    You can control it w/ medicine more easier and also working to be more aware of every symptom, and making a strategy to avoid doing social stuff that might put you in trouble.
  • edited January 2010
    Everlast wrote: »
    You can control it w/ medicine more easier and also working to be more aware of every symptom, and making a strategy to avoid doing social stuff that might put you in trouble.

    Grammar mistakes make me sad... But oh well.

    I just wanted to post something. -shame-
  • edited January 2010
    I get frequent bouts of depression and how I cope depends on the level of severity. If it's mild to moderate, I'll go about my day at a slower rate and maybe wind down with some funny videos, games, or a nice dosage of Azumanga Daioh or Surfin' the Highway. If I'm severely upset, I usually don't do much of anything, beside just half-ass the way through my classes and obligations and then go to my room and either waste hours on the internet or lie on my bed, bitterly shutting out the world for a while. And this while can last anywhere from a few hours to even days.

    And when that happens, I usually don't have an appetite so to answer your question: no, I don't gobble down a gallon of ice cream then.

    Besides, I usually don't have ANY ice cream in the freezer these days :(

    I usually have chocolate on me though, but that gets gobbled down during my snack attacks, which typically happen when I'm stressed or generally happy ><
  • edited January 2010
    Everlast wrote: »
    You can control it w/ medicine more easier and also working to be more aware of every symptom, and making a strategy to avoid doing social stuff that might put you in trouble.

    Heh, believe me, I spent the majority of my formative years heavily medicated and tossed around from facility to facility. I stopped taking the meds when I turned 20, and I haven't used them in over three years since. I find I'm doing better now that I'm off them than I ever did back then.
  • edited January 2010
    ShaggE wrote: »
    Heh, believe me, I spent the majority of my formative years heavily medicated and tossed around from facility to facility. I stopped taking the meds when I turned 20, and I haven't used them in over three years since. I find I'm doing better now that I'm off them than I ever did back then.

    Although I would never advise anyone to just stop taking their medication, I do agree that from one person to the next, meds range from very useful to superfluous to doing more harm than good.
  • edited January 2010
    Avistew wrote: »
    Although I would never advise anyone to just stop taking their medication, I do agree that from one person to the next, meds range from very useful to superfluous to doing more harm than good.

    This. It was extremely dangerous to do what I did, seeing as how I was on Lithium, which can kill you if you suddenly stop taking it. But I was honestly willing to take the chance, since one of the meds I used to take gave me seizures and blackouts (the blackouts continue to this day, albeit much less often and much shorter in length), and I would have rather been dead than risk suffering that again.

    I mean, it's not fun living by the whim of my brain's chemical secretions (which is why few things anger me more than people feigning mental illness for attention, as seems to be the trend these days), but I'll take this over being a vegetable any day.
  • edited January 2010
    ShaggE wrote: »
    This. It was extremely dangerous to do what I did, seeing as how I was on Lithium, which can kill you if you suddenly stop taking it. But I was honestly willing to take the chance, since one of the meds I used to take gave me seizures and blackouts (the blackouts continue to this day, albeit much less often and much shorter in length), and I would have rather been dead than risk suffering that again.

    I mean, it's not fun living by the whim of my brain's chemical secretions (which is why few things anger me more than people feigning mental illness for attention, as seems to be the trend these days), but I'll take this over being a vegetable any day.

    Shagge, I suffer from manic depression, and PTSD. It is not a fun place in my in mind at times, but you know what I agree with you 100%.

    I have to lose myself in music, gaming or doing whatever I feel like is going to focus away from anything, that focuses on myself. Probably why I'm the forums so much allways updating my twitter, and facebook.
  • edited January 2010
    Icedhope wrote: »
    Shagge, I suffer from manic depression, and PTSD. It is not a fun place in my in mind at times, but you know what I agree with you 100%.

    Cheers, I was hoping that somebody here could relate. Every time I meet a new person with MH issues, it makes it that much easier to deal with my own. Strength in numbers, and all of that.
  • edited January 2010
    I suffer from depression, ADHD, dyslexia, and a mild case of OCD (still at the level considered "having it"). Talk about confusing.
  • edited January 2010
    TomPravetz wrote: »
    I suffer from depression, ADHD, dyslexia, and a mild case of OCD (still at the level considered "having it"). Talk about confusing.

    Ouch, OCD and dyslexia together? That cannot be fun. I have OCD as well, and one of my compulsions is perfect spelling. If I had dyslexia on top of it, I'd be in the fetal position all day. :p
  • edited January 2010
    My mind seems like it's at war with itself, and I can't takes medications, because one would counteract another... But my writings are fun!
  • edited January 2010
    What is this "sad" you speak of?
  • edited January 2010
    TomPravetz wrote: »
    I suffer from depression, ADHD, dyslexia, and a mild case of OCD (still at the level considered "having it"). Talk about confusing.

    Let's see... I have suffered from depression (although not at the moment, yay!), I'm dysnumberic, I have agoraphobia (fear of public places, not open spaces), panic troubles and several other phobias, I'm allergic to antibiotics, milk (hey, maybe that's why I'm allergic to milk, come to think of it >.>), dust mites and some other stuff, I have asthma that can be triggered by heat, cold, effort, humidity, and by milk (see above, allergic to milk), I have chronic lung infection and ear infection (due to not being able to heal them properly since I'm allergic to antibiotics) and... er... I'm sure there was more.

    Okay, I cheated, I listed lots of stuff that are physical, not psychological/emotional.

    Oh, I almost forgot, I also have a hypothyroid thingie.
    And bad teeth and eyes. But I wear glasses and two surgeries and 7 years of braces solved the tooth problems.

    I think my parents didn't think it through when they decided to have kids >.> I have 3 brothers and I'm the healthiest one, for the record. At least physically.

    Do I win something? If so, I want a cookie. Without milk, please.
  • edited January 2010
    Avistew wrote: »
    Do I win something? If so, I want a cookie. Without milk, please.

    Ohhh... Sorry, the prize was ʞ1ıɯ... So sorry. (Why is the 'l' a '1'? That is killing me!)
  • edited January 2010
    TomPravetz wrote: »
    Ohhh... Sorry, the prize was ʞ1ıɯ... So sorry. (Why is the 'l' a '1'? That is killing me!)

    That's okay, I'm not allergic to it when it's spelt upside-down :P
  • edited January 2010
    Avistew wrote: »
    That's okay, I'm not allergic to it when it's spelt upside-down :P

    Good. That's a relief.
  • edited January 2010
    Avistew wrote: »
    (Maladies a-poppin')

    Do I win something? If so, I want a cookie. Without milk, please.

    Anybody remember the show "Queen For A Day"? This thread is now that. :p
  • edited January 2010
    ShaggE wrote: »
    Anybody remember the show "Queen For A Day"? This thread is now that. :p

    No, but am I the queen?
  • edited January 2010
  • edited January 2010
    TomPravetz wrote: »
    No, but am I the queen?

    We are ALL the Queen! As long as we don't mind being publicly humiliated.
  • edited January 2010
    We are the champions! We are the champions! No time for losers, 'cause we are the champions!
  • edited January 2010
    TomPravetz wrote: »
    I suffer from depression, ADHD, dyslexia, and a mild case of OCD (still at the level considered "having it"). Talk about confusing.

    ADD without hyperactivity but w/ impulsivity here! When i took the class of Psychopathology on of the things they said its that you will find yourselve eventually in the DSM IV.

    Also about the OCD w/ grammar, man my main language is spanish. So its kinda harder to speak it in the accorded sense and same goes for writing.

    Also someone said about medicines and the range of effectiveness. It is true but its always worth the try. Shagge has a point and he has felt better. But i always add that for better copping in life with a pathology such as bipolar its continued psychotherapy.

    Agoraphobia and OCD are anxiety disorders that must require attention because they can get worst if left unattended.

    I also have my bouts of depression but im well aware that mine is more like shorter than a week and can be for 1 or 2 days. But nonetheless life is a battle for reaching to our goals and getting along with others.
  • edited January 2010
    I don't generally get depressed often, but when it happens, no matter how I hide it, someone always manages to catch it (no matter how hard I try to not show it, it's times like that I wish my face wasn't that readable) and a good talk always gets me through or playing a video game or wasting the hours of my life on the internet. But either way, it's a form of venting out. I hate keeping things bottled in.

    Also, I'm not a huge fan of ice cream to begin with so eating something I don't like when I'm sad would probably just make things worse...
  • edited January 2010
    I always thought the numbers should go...

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    in alphabetical order.
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