I agree with pretty much everything here. Honestly, I think it's bullshit that sex is shunned so much. It's a totally natural thing, and people are not going to stop doing it, so we may as well show them how to be safe when they do it. At my school, it's handled pretty well. They make it very clear that sex is risky, but they also teach us how to be safe and to minimize risk to personal health. And it works. In Australia, teen pregnancy has been falling for twenty years. In 1971, there were around 55 births per 1000 women. In 2011, that number went down to 15.
This is a rant talking about a lot of users on this forum (Out of respect I wont name you guyz )
Soi i've been in an argument with a soli… mored amount of users on this forum who seem to think teaching 'abstinence' to teenagers is good. The fact its still legal in most of the United States honestly is pure stupidity and ignorance. It doesn't work, some teenagers are going to go out and bang some people no matter how much you teach them about Abstinence. In some parts of Western Europe where they teach comprehensive/explicit sex ed has the lowest abortion/STD and pregnancy ratings. So why do people think teaching abstinence is right or good? I just think its a narrow minded thing.
Also states that teach Abstinence the most also have the higher Abortion, STD, and Pregnancy rates. Coincidence.. probably not.
Some users have said to me
"Just scare the teens from having sex" -Real user
No.. no most teens arent and will never be 'scared f… [view original content]
Now, I'm quite a jaded person when it comes to allowing anyone in my life because I'll be damned if I let someone take me for granted and fuck me over.
Only person you can trust is yourself, but you can love others, remember the old adage people always hurt the ones they love. They don't say it because it is not true.
Alright, I'll bite.
One thing that's always frustrated me to no end is when two people who are in a relationship don't commit to it and s… moretill run around like they're fucking single. I've been raised by two people who are both systemically lonely and who've cheated on each other throughout their twenty two year marriage constantly spreading themselves apart from one another until they filed for divorce a few years back. Now, I'm quite a jaded person when it comes to allowing anyone in my life because I'll be damned if I let someone take me for granted and fuck me over.
Trust is something of a commodity these days and what with all the negativity surrounding being in a relationship, it seems more and more that just hitting and quitting is the answer. But I've never been down with that path either, it seems too easy and taking advantage of another human in that way just isn't something I want.
The one thing I've discovered is that sex i… [view original content]
Man that sucks. Unfortunately, a lot of people are being brought up in the same situation. A number of my friend's had disappeared dad's a
or parents in venomous relationships. People don't realize or care that the shit they do blows back on their kids.
Alright, I'll bite.
One thing that's always frustrated me to no end is when two people who are in a relationship don't commit to it and s… moretill run around like they're fucking single. I've been raised by two people who are both systemically lonely and who've cheated on each other throughout their twenty two year marriage constantly spreading themselves apart from one another until they filed for divorce a few years back. Now, I'm quite a jaded person when it comes to allowing anyone in my life because I'll be damned if I let someone take me for granted and fuck me over.
Trust is something of a commodity these days and what with all the negativity surrounding being in a relationship, it seems more and more that just hitting and quitting is the answer. But I've never been down with that path either, it seems too easy and taking advantage of another human in that way just isn't something I want.
The one thing I've discovered is that sex i… [view original content]
I fucking know right?! I posted an Inspirational quote me and My buddies Girbeagly and Pix made about youtubers and their fans on the Megathread, and some guy, (we resolved it) Said "I wonder how much work goes into Playing a game and saying whatever pops into your Noggin"
We youtubers work Hard, and they need to realize it.
It's the same type of bullshit Youtubers get. If you put in the effort, then you deserve recognition. The platform on which you showcase your work shouldn't mean jack shit.
Oh boy... So Today was Reletively good, I took a break from Youtube starting today, My friends were there for me, I spoke to my girlfriend, I got to eat Taco's, and My house was clean so my mother didn't come home and take all of her work stress out on me. But as soon as the Clock hit 7, shit went so downhill it's in China.
So, I told something about my sister to one of my friends as a Joke, and she took it as, "My sister is an offensive bitch", So, She messaged her, Cussed her out, and Made her cry. So my friend Messages me like she did I good thing and earned a fuckin' reward, and I cussed her out about it, She then got angry and said I never cared about her, and said all of this awful stuff, Then proceeded to Post all these Untrue things about how fucking awful I am. and All of her friends attacked me, and Made me feel quite bad about myself. So I spoke to my Best friend Nickolas for a while, and He was cool, Until I mention The Legend of Zelda. He is so stubborn with Opinions, even More than I am, He once wrote a 15 Paragraph rant about How stupid Sonic fans are, all because I said I appriciated Sonic Boom's design. So, I said
"I don't think OoT is one of the best Zelda games, But I do love it." and somehow, we Started talking about Link to the Past and Skyward Sword. I said I had recently Replayed Skyward Sword, and I thought it was great, so then He started Cussing me out for thinking that, and By the way, this has been building for a while, When we talk, it's in short sentences because I'm very busy, and He never even Visits, so Now, We are at each others Throats, I apoligize and he Ignores me, and I get offline.
Now, I manage a FNaF group on Facebook home to over 400 Members, and I have many admins, He happens to be one of them, and He posted,
"I'm leaving this Group. Five Nights is a shitty game and you all should be ashamed of yourselves for Liking it, I'll see you Weeaboo fantards in Hell, Cause that's where you're going."
So, That was in front of all of my Fellow members and admins, and I got online and I was greeted to THAT. I am so fucking beyond done right now. So now it's 10:50 PM, and all of this started at 7:12 PM. Can I for ONCE have a good night?
Oh boy... So Today was Reletively good, I took a break from Youtube starting today, My friends were there for me, I spoke to my girlfriend, … moreI got to eat Taco's, and My house was clean so my mother didn't come home and take all of her work stress out on me. But as soon as the Clock hit 7, shit went so downhill it's in China.
So, I told something about my sister to one of my friends as a Joke, and she took it as, "My sister is an offensive bitch", So, She messaged her, Cussed her out, and Made her cry. So my friend Messages me like she did I good thing and earned a fuckin' reward, and I cussed her out about it, She then got angry and said I never cared about her, and said all of this awful stuff, Then proceeded to Post all these Untrue things about how fucking awful I am. and All of her friends attacked me, and Made me feel quite bad about myself. So I spoke to my Best friend Nickolas for a while, and He was cool, Until I mention The Legend … [view original content]
I've gotten banned on here twice.
Once during a mental breakdown where I decided to take it out on the Minecraft game.
A second one du… morering...I wouldn't call it another mental breakdown but I wasn't thinking clearly that night. I got in an argument, it just kept going and one thing led to another and three people were banned.
I get banned for an extremely short time but with this place being a very big safe haven for me it can become extremely hard to deal with it. Although when I'm in my right mind, I'm not usually a dick. :P
Ok, this is gonna be a weird post, but I really do need help.
I'm asexual, and a girl liked me for a while. She asked me out, and I said no. She asked why and I told her my sexuality. Now I have a bad reputation for being an asexual ;_; halp
I agree with all of this. No matter what it's not gonna work, Since when has this Generation of Teenagers listened to anyone anyway? and Take it from me, I'm a teenager and I don't give a fuck about what anyone says. XD Good thing I'm homeschooled so I don't have that type of environment.
This is a rant talking about a lot of users on this forum (Out of respect I wont name you guyz )
Soi i've been in an argument with a soli… mored amount of users on this forum who seem to think teaching 'abstinence' to teenagers is good. The fact its still legal in most of the United States honestly is pure stupidity and ignorance. It doesn't work, some teenagers are going to go out and bang some people no matter how much you teach them about Abstinence. In some parts of Western Europe where they teach comprehensive/explicit sex ed has the lowest abortion/STD and pregnancy ratings. So why do people think teaching abstinence is right or good? I just think its a narrow minded thing.
Also states that teach Abstinence the most also have the higher Abortion, STD, and Pregnancy rates. Coincidence.. probably not.
Some users have said to me
"Just scare the teens from having sex" -Real user
No.. no most teens arent and will never be 'scared f… [view original content]
Dude, You are you. You shouldn't care about what others say about you, It's only a bad Rep if you wear the title of Asexual with shame. You should be proud of who you are, and your true friends will support you.
Ok, this is gonna be a weird post, but I really do need help.
I'm asexual, and a girl liked me for a while. She asked me out, and I said no. She asked why and I told her my sexuality. Now I have a bad reputation for being an asexual ;_; halp
I'm trying to remember if it was my post on Tumblr that started that whole thing.
Nah, I'd definitely be on the top of the list. I mean, I'm 90% sure I got the longest ban. That must sum up how stupid I was acting.
Well, I know me and you were banned and there was someone else but I forget who. I'm pretty sure you got off before me...Hmm, I don't remember that well.
Man, that whole thing was stupid wasn't it. Lol
Yep.
Hell, put myself at the top of that list.
Nah, I'd definitely be on the top of the list. I mean, I'm 90% sure I got the longest ban. That must sum up how stupid I was acting.
Dude, You are you. You shouldn't care about what others say about you, It's only a bad Rep if you wear the title of Asexual with shame. You should be proud of who you are, and your true friends will support you.
Ok, this is gonna be a weird post, but I really do need help.
I'm asexual, and a girl liked me for a while. She asked me out, and I said no. She asked why and I told her my sexuality. Now I have a bad reputation for being an asexual ;_; halp
Dude, You are you. You shouldn't care about what others say about you, It's only a bad Rep if you wear the title of Asexual with shame. You should be proud of who you are, and your true friends will support you.
I get furious when I think of how harsh people were towards Youtubers during that whole Youtube-copyright bullshit. Seriously, so many people had their livelihoods threaten by the greedy fucks claiming videos and people say, "Get a real job."
It doesn't matter if you think Youtube is a real job or not. That's fucking sick.
I fucking know right?! I posted an Inspirational quote me and My buddies Girbeagly and Pix made about youtubers and their fans on the Megath… moreread, and some guy, (we resolved it) Said "I wonder how much work goes into Playing a game and saying whatever pops into your Noggin"
We youtubers work Hard, and they need to realize it.
Ok, this is gonna be a weird post, but I really do need help.
I'm asexual, and a girl liked me for a while. She asked me out, and I said no. She asked why and I told her my sexuality. Now I have a bad reputation for being an asexual ;_; halp
I get furious when I think of how harsh people were towards Youtubers during that whole Youtube-copyright bullshit. Seriously, so many peopl… moree had their livelihoods threaten by the greedy fucks claiming videos and people say, "Get a real job."
It doesn't matter if you think Youtube is a real job or not. That's fucking sick.
This is too real. There's this girl I know who fakes panic attacks to get out of group projects and presentations. I know they're fake because immediately after whatever she didn't want to do was over with it was like she completely forgot she was even having one. And as someone who actually suffers from panic attacks and works to overcome them, it really makes me angry to see her get a free pass. And the teacher actually believes her, which makes it worse.
I hate when people self-diagnose themselves with mental disorders. It's not a "quirk", or something that makes you a special little snowflak… moree who should be pitied if you say you have it. Have you been to a therapist, psychologist, psychiatrist, or a treatment center? One could very well have a mental illness but they need someone who is a licensed professional to diagnose, not reading a list of symptoms or taking an online quiz and claiming you "suffer from X, Y, or Z".
If you get nervous before a test, that doesn't mean you have an anxiety disorder.
If you feel down sometimes, that doesn't mean you have depression.
If you like keeping your room neat and organized, that doesn't mean you have OCD.
OCD is incredibly misunderstood and stereotyped by the media. It's thought to be just about washing your hands constantly/being a total neat freak or counting things, but it's actually very broad in its diagnosis and is an "umbrella disor… [view original content]
My brother who has severe ADHD needed Adderall, without it he could barely function in the classroom. People at my school with bi polar are … morefreaking scary without meds, once they are properly medicated they do better. I'm on a cocktail of 5 different medications, and I'd be worse off without it. I go to a therapeutic school so pretty much everyone there is on some kind of medication, there are people who really need it.
It’s probably quite easy to be ‘anti-medication’ if you’re privileged enough not to need medication to feel normal.
Shaming people for taking medication just to get through their lives is pretty horrid.
I hate People on YT who say, "Disliked and Unsubbed" when they hate someones content Like they're some big deal and everyone Knows who they are.
It's Like, "Bitch, You aren't the fucking pope, You aren't someone I even know, It won't be the worst thing ever if you leave, So why the fuck do you have to announce it Like it's some big deal, and Put the YouTuber and their fanbase down?"
I get furious when I think of how harsh people were towards Youtubers during that whole Youtube-copyright bullshit. Seriously, so many peopl… moree had their livelihoods threaten by the greedy fucks claiming videos and people say, "Get a real job."
It doesn't matter if you think Youtube is a real job or not. That's fucking sick.
Now, I'm quite a jaded person when it comes to allowing anyone in my life because I'll be damned if I let someone take me for granted and fu… moreck me over.
Only person you can trust is yourself, but you can love others, remember the old adage people always hurt the ones they love. They don't say it because it is not true.
Know what i mean earl.
It is what it is. My father is a workaholic who travels a lot and thinks being a man means having "certain needs" met. My mother on the other hand has had a real shit life and has extremely low self-worth so feels like if she isn't being showered in unconditional love and material objects, she's worthless.
Me on the other hand, well I shut people out... that's my answer. Maybe not a good one, but it works for now.
Man that sucks. Unfortunately, a lot of people are being brought up in the same situation. A number of my friend's had disappeared dad's a… more
or parents in venomous relationships. People don't realize or care that the shit they do blows back on their kids.
are you implying that comprehensive sexual education will ruin kids lives or am I mistaken?
I am saying that if a child wants to have sex with another child, then they take the risk of having what i call a Life ender. You are bound to that person for the next eighteen years of your life. You will never be free ever again. Like me, i can go out and just leave. I am not bound to anyone. I love my freedom.
Use protection! Male condoms, Birth control and female condoms can stop this (also male bc is coming and thank the holy lords of Science and safe sex)
Children are known for being responsible right? My bad. I remember what my parents told me , here was my sex talk.
Have sex,
Get Aids
Die.
Its funny, when you think about it, but it kept me from doing stupid things in high school. In conclusion, children shouldn't be having sex, if they decide to, they shouldn't expect their parents to bail them out, or to raise their child.
If a teenager wants to ruin their life, let them.
CrazyGeorge you once again confuse me are you implying that comprehensive sexual … moreeducation will ruin kids lives or am I mistaken?
Once you have that child its over. Its over.
Use protection! Male condoms, Birth control and female condoms can stop this (also male bc is coming and thank the holy lords of Science and safe sex)
I'm 21, but I'm not desperate. I just want to be to myself.
I feel ya, I'm going to be twenty nine this month, and i feel absolutely nothing more. I'm so impenetrable, it makes my enemies worry, because their insults get deflected like lasers from on a mirror.
I'm not ready to share my oblivion with anyone but me as of now, I've been fucked over a few times too many to get lost in that black hole again.
I'm 21, but I'm not desperate. I just want to be to myself.
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Well, decide whatever you think is best. I wish you luck in getting better.
I'm used to it, go into the military, then come back to civilian life. Enjoy that double standard of "supporting our Troops."
Thanks.
I agree with pretty much everything here. Honestly, I think it's bullshit that sex is shunned so much. It's a totally natural thing, and people are not going to stop doing it, so we may as well show them how to be safe when they do it. At my school, it's handled pretty well. They make it very clear that sex is risky, but they also teach us how to be safe and to minimize risk to personal health. And it works. In Australia, teen pregnancy has been falling for twenty years. In 1971, there were around 55 births per 1000 women. In 2011, that number went down to 15.
Only person you can trust is yourself, but you can love others, remember the old adage people always hurt the ones they love. They don't say it because it is not true.
Know what i mean earl.
Man that sucks. Unfortunately, a lot of people are being brought up in the same situation. A number of my friend's had disappeared dad's a
or parents in venomous relationships. People don't realize or care that the shit they do blows back on their kids.
I ate cat before, at Mr Changs.
I fucking know right?! I posted an Inspirational quote me and My buddies Girbeagly and Pix made about youtubers and their fans on the Megathread, and some guy, (we resolved it) Said "I wonder how much work goes into Playing a game and saying whatever pops into your Noggin"
We youtubers work Hard, and they need to realize it.
Oh boy... So Today was Reletively good, I took a break from Youtube starting today, My friends were there for me, I spoke to my girlfriend, I got to eat Taco's, and My house was clean so my mother didn't come home and take all of her work stress out on me. But as soon as the Clock hit 7, shit went so downhill it's in China.
So, I told something about my sister to one of my friends as a Joke, and she took it as, "My sister is an offensive bitch", So, She messaged her, Cussed her out, and Made her cry. So my friend Messages me like she did I good thing and earned a fuckin' reward, and I cussed her out about it, She then got angry and said I never cared about her, and said all of this awful stuff, Then proceeded to Post all these Untrue things about how fucking awful I am. and All of her friends attacked me, and Made me feel quite bad about myself. So I spoke to my Best friend Nickolas for a while, and He was cool, Until I mention The Legend of Zelda. He is so stubborn with Opinions, even More than I am, He once wrote a 15 Paragraph rant about How stupid Sonic fans are, all because I said I appriciated Sonic Boom's design. So, I said
"I don't think OoT is one of the best Zelda games, But I do love it." and somehow, we Started talking about Link to the Past and Skyward Sword. I said I had recently Replayed Skyward Sword, and I thought it was great, so then He started Cussing me out for thinking that, and By the way, this has been building for a while, When we talk, it's in short sentences because I'm very busy, and He never even Visits, so Now, We are at each others Throats, I apoligize and he Ignores me, and I get offline.
Now, I manage a FNaF group on Facebook home to over 400 Members, and I have many admins, He happens to be one of them, and He posted,
"I'm leaving this Group. Five Nights is a shitty game and you all should be ashamed of yourselves for Liking it, I'll see you Weeaboo fantards in Hell, Cause that's where you're going."
So, That was in front of all of my Fellow members and admins, and I got online and I was greeted to THAT. I am so fucking beyond done right now. So now it's 10:50 PM, and all of this started at 7:12 PM. Can I for ONCE have a good night?
That sucks...However you can take pride in knowing others are there for you (Just have to pick who to talk to) and that others share your pain.
raises hand
Man, that whole thing was stupid wasn't it. Lol
Everyone was just acting so childish, myself included...Hell, put myself at the top of that list.
Look, it's fine if you murdered a Kitten, I really don't care, that's your Buisness, Not mine. But... WHY?
Yep.
Nah, I'd definitely be on the top of the list. I mean, I'm 90% sure I got the longest ban. That must sum up how stupid I was acting.
Neither do I. But that doesn't mean it won't change.
Ok, this is gonna be a weird post, but I really do need help.
I'm asexual, and a girl liked me for a while. She asked me out, and I said no. She asked why and I told her my sexuality. Now I have a bad reputation for being an asexual ;_; halp
I agree with all of this. No matter what it's not gonna work, Since when has this Generation of Teenagers listened to anyone anyway? and Take it from me, I'm a teenager and I don't give a fuck about what anyone says. XD Good thing I'm homeschooled so I don't have that type of environment.
Dude, You are you. You shouldn't care about what others say about you, It's only a bad Rep if you wear the title of Asexual with shame. You should be proud of who you are, and your true friends will support you.
I know that, and I take pride in it. Thank you Golden.
I'm trying to remember if it was my post on Tumblr that started that whole thing.
Well, I know me and you were banned and there was someone else but I forget who. I'm pretty sure you got off before me...Hmm, I don't remember that well.
Thanks!
Just tell them it's not their business. You don't give them a bad rep for being straight or gay or anything.
k. Thanks.
Not a problem! Just know that people will support you.
I get furious when I think of how harsh people were towards Youtubers during that whole Youtube-copyright bullshit. Seriously, so many people had their livelihoods threaten by the greedy fucks claiming videos and people say, "Get a real job."
It doesn't matter if you think Youtube is a real job or not. That's fucking sick.
I thought asexuals can still have romantic feelings? (Sorry, I don't know much about asexuals).
It is.
Some do. It really depends.
Some Asexuals have romantic but not sexual feelings.
Other Asexual dont have romantic or sexual feelings.
This is too real. There's this girl I know who fakes panic attacks to get out of group projects and presentations. I know they're fake because immediately after whatever she didn't want to do was over with it was like she completely forgot she was even having one. And as someone who actually suffers from panic attacks and works to overcome them, it really makes me angry to see her get a free pass. And the teacher actually believes her, which makes it worse.
It’s probably quite easy to be ‘anti-medication’ if you’re privileged enough not to need medication to feel normal.
Shaming people for taking medication just to get through their lives is pretty horrid.
Is this at me?
No, I'm just explaining in general.
I hate People on YT who say, "Disliked and Unsubbed" when they hate someones content Like they're some big deal and everyone Knows who they are.
It's Like, "Bitch, You aren't the fucking pope, You aren't someone I even know, It won't be the worst thing ever if you leave, So why the fuck do you have to announce it Like it's some big deal, and Put the YouTuber and their fanbase down?"
I know. But I was referring to the people that think it isn't.
I'm not ready to share my oblivion with anyone but me as of now, I've been fucked over a few times too many to get lost in that black hole again.
I'm 21, but I'm not desperate. I just want to be to myself.
It is what it is. My father is a workaholic who travels a lot and thinks being a man means having "certain needs" met. My mother on the other hand has had a real shit life and has extremely low self-worth so feels like if she isn't being showered in unconditional love and material objects, she's worthless.
Me on the other hand, well I shut people out... that's my answer. Maybe not a good one, but it works for now.
It tasted like really bad Chinese food, I ended up puking my guts out, then i found out he got closed down by the Health department.
I am saying that if a child wants to have sex with another child, then they take the risk of having what i call a Life ender. You are bound to that person for the next eighteen years of your life. You will never be free ever again. Like me, i can go out and just leave. I am not bound to anyone. I love my freedom.
Children are known for being responsible right? My bad. I remember what my parents told me , here was my sex talk.
Have sex,
Get Aids
Die.
Its funny, when you think about it, but it kept me from doing stupid things in high school. In conclusion, children shouldn't be having sex, if they decide to, they shouldn't expect their parents to bail them out, or to raise their child.
I feel ya, I'm going to be twenty nine this month, and i feel absolutely nothing more. I'm so impenetrable, it makes my enemies worry, because their insults get deflected like lasers from on a mirror.